In two days I begin my second year as a first-generation student, but for some reason this year already feels much different from the last.
Going into last year, I had a lot of trouble when it came to anything involving college. As a senior in high school I was confused as to what the difference between Cal States, UC, and Privates were.
Then, as a first-year college student I was not prepared for anything. For instance, what to take to my dorm, how to fully organize my time and money, if classes were better in the morning or night, and what to prioritize first such as family or education.
Since then, things have changed… I took out loans this year because last year I was paying tuition out of pocket (with the help of my father) and it was the most stressing situation I had ever been in. My major, Architecture, does not allow me to have an open schedule. In fact, it does not allow me to have much time for myself, either. Not only do I have to worry about being on task with bills, I have tons of work to do every single day.
The reason I write about this is because the question has always come to mind; maybe my experience would be different if I was not a first-generation student?
What if I had advice from others, from family and friends. What if I did not have to second guess myself, worry about these things no one I know has ever worried about. Questions like this always tend to drift through my mind the further I attend college.
Though my first year was difficult, as I wrote earlier, for some reason the following year feels different. For one, I already feel a lot more experienced then I did coming into college. Also, I know now where to go to for some issues I might have along the way, or any questions I might stumble upon.
Despite being extremely stressed out before school beginning, I decided to set goals for this school year, which I feel can benefit anyone (freshman or not). Here are my goals, which may help or give ideas to anyone else.
Goals:
1. Organization with time management (work & school)
This way I don't find myself out of time or forgetting entire assignments to do, which I almost did freshman year.
2. Make time for myself & family
This is important because family gives people, or at least me, time for ease and relaxation and a sort of vacation from how hectic school work can be.
3. Make the best out of this year
No matter how difficult things may become, it is important to make the best out of every situation. This year I want to make the best out of everything. That is a goal I feel everyone can benefit from.
