Each person born into this world is unique and perfectly different from every other individual who walks across Earth, so when someone tells you that you need to "find yourself," what does that even mean?
It's simple: it means whateveryou want it to mean. Finding yourself occurs in many different realms of life and what one person tells you doesn't signify what you may feel completes you.
You are the creator of your own destiny; guidance is always a necessity when going throughout any journey, but you must remember that in the end, you are all you have when making decisions for yourself.
Finding yourself is awakening your conscious to create your own personal life timeline. This is where you must set goals and find aspirations in life to pursue and accomplish to your liking.
The biggest step in finding yourself is putting aside your thoughts from others. The only time another person's opinion should matter is when you reach out for that opinion. Doing so will alleviate any type of persuasion to go against what you truly want.
You're the captain of your ship—you're the only one who tells it where to sail.
Confidence and reliance are where the heart of finding yourself lies. A stable sense of worth for yourself creates a wall no one could break down.
Once you believe in yourself and trust your own personal feelings, everything will fall into the exact place you always wished it would.
Conquer your own world and find the passion that fuels your fire.
You won't know who you are when you're ten years old, you'll have an idea of who you are when you're eighteen—but even when you're sixty, you still may not know who you are. What matters here is that as an individual you are constantly growing and adapting and along the way.
You will pick up key characteristics that make up your unique personality. Individuality comes with believing in yourself, and the second you give yourself complete confidence is the day you grow and find yourself more than ever.
Pursue your search and stay resilient during the process. Be yourself, no one else.
Xoxo