Growing up, I was the type of kid who complained about everything under the sun. Every winter day was "too cold" and every school day was "too long". I wouldn't go so far as to say that I was bratty or spoiled, but I did not show my full appreciation for what I had on a daily basis. Back then, I had no idea that my character would alter so drastically just a few years later.
It only took one moment during my junior year of high school to change my entire perspective on life. Through some very unfortunate circumstances, I received the message of my greatest mentor loud and clear: find the good in every day. These six simple words made me question everything I thought I knew and ended up changing me for the better. This phrase taught me what it truly means to "find the good".
While "find the good" most literally means to search for happiness and positivity, there is another layer to this phrase. Over time, I have come to know that finding the good means searching for such happiness and positivity, big or small, despite any challenges you may be facing. Whether it's the little things like a hug from a friend, a free beverage at Dunkin' Donuts, or an extra hour of sleep, or the big things like getting an A on an exam, reuniting with the people you love, or getting the job you really wanted, there is something good in each day of your life.
Of course, everyone has bad days and feels defeated once in a while. Life throws curveballs at us, forcing us to deal with tragedy and heartbreak when we least expect it. Trying times often make us question how we can continue on with our daily lives when something so catastrophic happens. But I've learned that even during those terrible, horrible, no-good, very bad days, there is in fact always something good to be cherished.
So as you go forward in life, find at least one good thing in each and every day. I won't lie to you, it will definitely be difficult to adjust to this way of life at first. You will probably cry or get angry. You will be discouraged. You will want to crumble, mourn, and grieve. You will want to just accept the loss. But, I urge you to think about the good. Find that one small detail that turns a hurricane into a small rain shower. Believe it or not, the storm will eventually pass.
Once you find the good for yourself, I challenge you to make it your mission (like I have) to help others do the same. So remember, find the good in every day and spread the goodness to all who cross your path.
