The Time Of The Year When Every Student Enters An Alternate Universe - Finals Week

The Time Of The Year When Every Student Enters An Alternate Universe - Finals Week

Everyone is crying - and I mean EVERYONE.


You know that time in life when you're happy, and your health is great, and you're a little less broke than usual, and there are no deadlines or intense pressure that push you to drop out and becoming a stripper? That is the time before and after finals. Finals are the death of every college kid. Actually, death seems easier to deal with.

The main thing I've noticed about finals week is that it seems like you're living in an alternate universe, and it's one of the greatest things about finals. For example, if I were to spend the week in my hometown during finals, everyone would look at me like I'm a crazy person. People would wonder when the last time I showered was, or if I got dressed in the dark. People would stare at me in dismay if a donut in the grocery store sparked a mental breakdown, and the guy at the car wash would wonder why I have seventy-two empty coffee cups in my car.

But finals week on campus, or at least in your college town, is completely different. Everyone is crying - and I mean EVERYONE. The girl sitting next to you in class crying? Just nod and cry together. If you wear the same outfit five days in a row, no one in class will judge you because they're probably doing the same thing. We're like an unspoken pact, and we stick together. No one is yelling or laughing because we're all quietly studying and crying. No one is going for a jog because it's cold out, and we haven't eaten in three days, so no one has the energy to go for a jog. If you see someone napping on the floor, you can probably join them. Coats make great pillows.

The one great thing about finals is that we all go through them together. We all have our own struggles and deadlines, but we're out here struggling and dying together. We aren't going to judge you if you cry in the library, or sleep in the library, or scream in the library - okay, you can pretty much do anything in the library without being judged. Fall asleep halfway through your sentence? Don't worry, dude, I wasn't listening anyway.

Campus might feel a little lonely and small at times, but finals week really makes you appreciate other college students. Finals week reminds you that you aren't alone, and you aren't crazy, even if that's how you're feeling lately.

Finals week sucks, and we all know it. We've all been through it, and we will continue to do so. If you aren't taking finals right now or ever, be supportive to your friends and family that are going through them. We miss the things we used to take for granted every day like sleep, healthy food, parties, socializing, and most importantly - our sanity. Let us stress and be dramatic because pretty soon, it'll all be over.

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Trust Me, I’m Good.

"Happiness held is the seed; Happiness shared is the flower." - John Harrigan


How many of us say, "I'm good!" when someone asks how we are doing? Conversely, how many of our friends say the same when we ask the same question? Sometimes this is exactly how we are doing, but often times it isn't. When we say, "I'm good," but don't truly feel that way we are missing an opportunity to deepen our friendships while lightening our own load of worries. Have you ever felt really honored that a friend decided you were trustworthy enough to handle her or his true concerns? I have. It builds compassion and history between you and sets you up for deeper more quality friendship.

Getting beneath the surface is where the good stuff is. It is where the laughter, tears, sadness, and fun are all found. It is where our spirit is. Our soul. God knows our hearts without having to share, but as our Heavenly Father, He wants us to come to Him with our joys and problems. Next time you look in the mirror and say to yourself that you are good, but you aren't quite feeling it, stop and tell God where you are at and to meet you there. He will. Psalm 31:8 says, "I will rejoice and be glad in your mercy, once you have seen my misery, and gotten to know the distress of my soul."

It lightens our load to share our burdens. We have heard this before, but we always need to be reminded. So next time we want to answer with "I am fine," or "I am good," check out the situation. Are you with someone you have trusted in the past? Are you with someone who has confided in you with a trusting heart? Perhaps it is a new friend and you have to take a step of faith that they will guard your heart and keep your secrets.

We walk around desiring deeper friendships, but sometimes we want the other person to take the initiative first. A lot of valuable time can be wasted waiting on someone else. This week, I encourage all of us to find someone, to be honest with. Share your joy or your anxiety and see what doors this opens. I think we will all find more meaningful relationships waiting for us there.

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It's Important That We All Are Able To Step Back, Take A Breath, And Enjoy The Little Things

Really think of the good in your life, don't just hit the surface level of it all.


The little things in life no matter where you're at adds up. They can sometimes be few and far in between or just as frequent as us being on our phones almost every day. They are what make us give more thought about life, they are being with friends on a nice summer day, an epiphany, a night stroll, listening to music, going out with friends. These finer points in life are what makes it that much more special.

Taking a breather when things get crazier is easier said than done, but it's something that we sometimes need to do and could help us being able to manage life in the long run. Life is not a cake walk for anyone, and I'm not saying that it'll get easier but just because it doesn't get easier isn't going to stop us from living our best life. Sometimes taking a break is what we need sometimes, and that can come in many forms whether that's taking a chunk out of your day to read outside, go on long walks, hang out with friends, etc. Anything that can positively impact you in a way that helps you be able to have breathing room for yourself.

Once you took a breather, go and think on all of the good that's in your life. I mean really think, not just hit the surface level of it all. Think on the many times you've been hanging out with the exact same group of friends for so long and how they've been there for you and you for them, think on the walks that helped you cleared your head or that you have fun doing just cause, think on the little things such as you doing your hobby, favorite food, etc. Just think of all the things you have that mean so much to you, and how they've changed your life for the better.

We get so stuck trudging through life wishing, hoping for something better, wishing we could have a significant other we could hold on to, taking back a really crappy thing we said, feeling as if we're not going anywhere in life, that sometimes we forget to breathe, take a step back and see clearly the place we're at in our lives. Seeing that we have clothes on our back, food in our bellies, friends, and families we could lean on, and a life that deserves to be lived to its fullest.

Those finer points in life teach us is that the good, wholesome people in our lives or starting to show up in our lives help us get through the days and push us to be better people and that the little things we do that make our lives even a little bit better are what makes life worth living and why we should always appreciate those in our life because we only have one life to live.

Sometimes people don't have those points to look on, and it pains me that not everyone would be able to have that but to those that don't have those points to look on just know there are groups of people that are loving, kind, and good. That if you push on just a little bit longer you'll be able to meet those people and live a life you always wanted whether that's with a small group of friends or a big group.

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