When you're looking for a guy to date, you always have some qualities in mind for your ideal man: you want them to be handsome, you want them to be athletic, you want them to be smart, etc. And while all of those personality traits are equally important, there's one that we don't often remember to keep in mind when looking for a future partner: find a man who loves his mother.
I know what you're thinking: "every boy loves his mother." And that's true. But a boy who puts his mother before every other person in his life is the first thing you should look for. Does he make a lot of money? Is he the most attractive person you’ve ever met? Well, that means nothing if he doesn’t love his mother unconditionally.
Ladies, if a man doesn't have a good relationship with his mother, run. Run fast, run soon, just run. Because if a man doesn't have that special bond with his mother, you're in trouble.
A relationship between a boy and his mom is without a doubt the most important thing, and I'll tell you why.
A boy who loves his mother is the best kind of boy you can find.
A boy who loves his mother is sweet. She taught him to be sweet from the day she had him. She showed him how with her own sweetness.
A boy who loves his mother is respectful. She raised him to respect everyone who he met. She taught him to respect women all women.
A boy who loves his mother is loving. She taught him how to love by loving him. She taught him that love means everything.
A boy who loves his mother is romantic. She taught him what it means to show affection.
A boy who loves his mother is emotional. She taught him that showing how you feel is okay. She showed him what it means to be sensitive.
A boy who loves his mother is thoughtful. She taught him to think about how others feel, and to keep that in mind when interacting with others.
A boy who loves his mother is funny. She taught him how to be silly. How to dance like nobody is watching. How to laugh until your stomach hurts. How to make jokes when things get to serious.
A boy who loves his mother knows how to love you better than anyone else. When a boy loves his mother, you know the kind of incredible love he is capable of. You know that the sky is the limit. That your love will grow because of the love he shows his mother.
So when you're out there, searching for the perfect man, just remember to fall in love with the boy who loves his mother more than anyone, even more than you. Because if he loves you half as much as he loves his mother, you will be the luckiest woman in the world to know a love like that.
