This first week of college has been full of learning and life. I have been here for a total of four days and it's already become the one of the most phenomenal experiences of my life, and it's because of the connections I've cultivated. I've been here for less than a week and I'm already head over heels for my friends. These are easily the greatest friends have had so far, and it's all because I chose to talk, connect, and branch out.
It's been a challenge for me to not bring my high school insecurities to college. I find them lurking around every corner, waiting to trip me up and take me down. I tend to think I'm not as pretty as the next girl, not as smart as the next student, and twice as awkward as everyone else. Connecting with the people that I love here has helped so much. They've picked me up when I'm down, they've encouraged me when I've felt nervous, they've celebrated with me, they've eaten junk food with me, they've sat doing nothing and embarked on grand adventures with me. None of this would've happened if we hadn't all sought each other out.
Yes, I'm just a freshman, and yes, I'm brand new to this big college world, but based on my experiences so far, I feel like I know at least one thing: leaving my room is vital. Going to school events has introduced me to a whole cast of characters that I never could've imagined. Going to various dining halls with my friends has brought me closer to them through simple conversation over food. Playing cards with them has taught me what makes them laugh, and lying around on their furniture watching movies together has taught me how simple it is to do nothing and be perfectly content with that.
Connection is a blessing I didn't know existed. I've had friendships and I've been fortunate enough to love a lot of people in my life, but until now, I haven't had the unique privilege of truly connecting with other human beings as we do life together. I feel a kinship and heart connection with this new family of mine, and it's hard to imagine what would've happened if I had stayed inside my shell.
If I can offer any encouragement to my fellow freshman from my seasoned four days, it would be to leave your room. Get uncomfortable. Turn off your computer. Leave Netflix behind and go introduce yourself to some random people. Talk to your CL or RA. Ask upperclassmen what they're involved in and try it out. Go drink coffee at the local cafe. Meet some professors. Invite a group to hang out in your dorm. I understand how intimidating it can be, but connection is so important to this college experience. I love my friends, and I can't wait to add more to the group. I hope you all find people as wonderful as the ones that I've come to know and love.
