Why Everyone Needs A Luke Danes At Some Point In Their Life

Why Everyone Needs A Luke Danes At Some Point In Their Life

Check your friend-zone, you probably already have someone like this in your corner.
Mary Rom
Mary Rom

Admittedly, I have always had high hopes for Lorelai (not to be confused with her daughter, Rory whose real name is actually Lorelai ) and Luke.

Before they even got together, I could sense there was something between them. As the show followed their relationship, we saw them dating other people, and never each other (until the fifth season I believe.) Up till then, they were friends, giving each other advice about relationships and life.

When Lorelai proposed to Luke, I was SO excited. I felt like this was a relationship that could actually last, and a healthy one for her to be in. However, Luke was slowly pulling away from Lorelei, after he found out about his daughter April. Eventually, because of the distance in their relationship Luke and Lorelei broke up. Which led to Lorelai going to Christopher's house and spending the night, which caused even more of a rift.

In the last episode of "Gilmore Girls: A Year In The Life Fall" Luke was incredibly sweet to Lorelai after she came back from her hike, and he thought she was leaving him.

This right here is all I will ever need. I never imagined that in my wildest dreams that it would happen, that you and me, that we would happen. But we did it. Listen, I know I'm not the easiest guy in the world to build a life with, and to share a house with, but there is no one who will be more here for you than me. I will never leave. I will never think about leaving. I will do whatever it takes to fix what's wrong." - Luke Danes, "Gilmore Girls: A Year In The Life" Episode 4, "Fall"

I believe Luke just set the standards high, for every relationship everywhere. To me, this quote just shows Lorelai how much Luke actually loves her. We know that she's had trouble with a lot of relationships before him, and when they first dated they had a lot of problems of their own. However, they always ended up going back to one another.

Now Lorelai knows more than ever that Luke is the one. In the same episode the quote came from, while on the trip, Lorelai had said she thought she knew what she wanted, and where she was headed with her life. But now, she wasn't sure at all. Which led to them getting married, and actually going through with a small ceremony.

Luke saying what he did, must've definitely made her feel more grounded, and supported. Which I think is what everyone needs from time to time, even if they won't admit it. These two have always been there for each other, even when they weren't speaking.

I guess you can say, Luke and Lorelai bring definition to relationship goals.

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To The Girl Struggling With Her Body Image

It's not about the size of your jeans, but the size of your heart, soul, and spirit.


To the girl struggling with her body image,

You are more than the number on the scale. You are more than the number on your jeans and dresses. You are way more than the number of pounds you've gained or lost in whatever amount of time.

Weight is defined as the quantity of matter contained by a body or object. Weight does not define your self-worth, ambition or potential.

So many girls strive for validation through the various numbers associated with body image and it's really so sad seeing such beautiful, incredible women become discouraged over a few numbers that don't measure anything of true significance.

Yes, it is important to live a healthy lifestyle. Yes, it is important to take care of yourself. However, taking care of yourself includes your mental health as well. Neglecting either your mental or physical health will inflict problems on the other. It's very easy to get caught up in the idea that you're too heavy or too thin, which results in you possibly mistreating your body in some way.

Your body is your special, beautiful temple. It harbors all of your thoughts, feelings, characteristics, and ideas. Without it, you wouldn't be you. If you so wish to change it in a healthy way, then, by all means, go ahead. With that being said, don't make changes to impress or please someone else. You are the only person who is in charge of your body. No one else has the right to tell you whether or not your body is good enough. If you don't satisfy their standards, then you don't need that sort of negative influence in your life. That sort of manipulation and control is extremely unhealthy in its own regard.

Do not hold back on things you love or want to do because of how you interpret your body. You are enough. You are more than enough. You are more than your exterior. You are your inner being, your spirit. A smile and confidence are the most beautiful things you can wear.

It's not about the size of your jeans. It's about the size of your mind and heart. Embrace your body, observe and adore every curve, bone and stretch mark. Wear what makes you feel happy and comfortable in your own skin. Do your hair and makeup (or don't do either) to your heart's desire. Wear the crop top you've been eyeing up in that store window. Want a bikini body? Put a bikini on your body, simple.

So, as hard as it may seem sometimes, understand that the number on the scale doesn't measure the amount or significance of your contributions to this world. Just because that dress doesn't fit you like you had hoped doesn't mean that you're any less of a person.

Love your body, and your body will love you right back.

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There Is No Such Thing As Being 'Overly Emotional' — That's Just Someone In Your Life Who Lacks Empathy

And whoever tells you differently obviously doesn't have an empathetic bone in their body.


Empathy: The ability to understand and share the feelings of others.

Used in a sentence: "Anne showed empathy to by holding and crying with Carl, who lost his father."

Well, that's been who I am my entire life. And I am sick of being called "weak" or "too emotional" because of it.

Ever since I was a child, it seemed like I cared too much about others. I constantly put others before my own needs — literally giving whatever I have to someone else who needs it more than I. I am the friend who listens and doesn't really talk about my own problems in my life, and whenever someone is in need or needs support, I stop what I'm doing — no matter how important — and will do whatever I can to help.

People call me "too emotional" or "weak" because of this, but you know what? I don't really care.

Yeah, I cry during the sad parts of the movies. Why? Because I put myself into the character's situation and understand what they are feeling. When my friends are hurt, I cry with them because I learn to understand their situation and sometimes, they need someone to cry with. I can barely watch the news without my stomach hurting and having tears in my eyes because of how horrible the climate of our political state is right now.

So, call me a "drama queen" or "emotional," but I would certainly rather be selfless and caring rather than being a judgmental, selfish person.

So, if you are like me, and is able to provide empathy to others by understanding their situations and caring for their feelings, then know I am proud of you. It takes a naturally good person to be able to step inside someone's shoes, walk a mile, and provide love and compassion for them. Crying, sharing stories, and being there for someone shows your character, and for that, you are stronger than you know.

And don't worry: the people who call us "weak," "dramatic," or "too emotional" are going to need us in their time of need, and when we help them, they will understand our strength.

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