Why does one major receive higher praise over another major? How come a science major automatically is assumed to be successful, but an Arts major is advised to not get their hopes up on being successful? These seem like stereotypes, but I endured this first hand. Before pursuing English, I was studying chemistry. Every time I told someone what my goals were, they were always amazed and complimented my dedication. What most people did not know was that I was miserable. I dreaded going to class every day, and I had no idea how I was ever going to make it.
After I switched to English, I almost instantly felt the change. My whole perspective transformed! I was excited for my classes and the rest of my academic path. I wanted to tell everyone about my improved plan and how everything seemed to be falling into place for me.
Unfortunately, sharing my optimism with others did not bring me as much joy as I expected. Not often were people so blunt about their disapproval of my impulsive change in direction, but it was obvious that they expected a lot less from me now. I was still the same person; I still possessed the same level of intelligence and motivation, if anything I was better off now that I had renewed my enthusiasm. But they could not see my future as clearly as I could. This was tremendously discouraging for me. Even though I was still happy with my decision and knew I did not make a mistake, this made me doubt myself; that is honestly just not fair.
No one knows better than yourself what is best for you. It is okay to make some wrong turns along the way or ask for directions, but ultimately you call the shots and should be content when you reach your final destination. You should feel proud for furthering your education, regardless of the area of study which makes you happy. Anyone who challenges you along the way is just another obstacle that needs to be defeated and left behind. Enjoy your journey and best of luck.
