I Spend A Lot Of Time On My Hair And Makeup, But That Doesn't Mean I'm Trying To Impress A Guy

I Spend A Lot Of Time On My Hair And Makeup, But That Doesn't Mean I'm Trying To Impress A Guy

Why do we live in a society where it is assumed that girls can't do anything without the purpose of getting a guy to notice them?


My morning routine is pretty simple: brush my teeth, wash my face, do my hair and makeup, get dressed, and maybe have a cup of coffee. While this seems pretty standard, I've been ridiculed far too many times about the time I spend on my appearance.

In the past, a lot of people tell me that my eye makeup routine is "not necessary." Their only logical explanation for my actions relating to my looks is that I'm trying to impress someone. These people are sadly mistaken and are the type of people I do not need in my life. They only bring me down. Why do we live in a society where it is assumed that girls can't do anything without the purpose of getting a guy to notice them?

When I get up in the morning with a full day ahead of me, I almost ALWAYS take about 25 minutes to fix my hair and do my makeup to my pleasing. While this could seem excessive, I do this for one reason and one reason only... for me. I genuinely enjoy the time I spend getting ready. It's relaxing, calming, and an easy way to collect my thoughts before I dive right into a busy day. This is a FUN activity that actually brings me a small amount of joy, no matter how tired I am.

Don't get me wrong, I have my days where I put zero effort into the way I look. I'll leave the house in nothing but sweats, without a stitch of makeup on my face, and my hair in a messy bun. How is it that I can go from one extreme to the other? Because I don't care about what others have to say about my looks. Sure, there are special occasions and circumstances where it is important to present yourself a certain way. But other than that, everything concerning my looks is all done for me. I love the way I look with makeup on, and I don't need compliments to reassure that. By the same token, I'm confident when I have nothing on my face to hide behind.

With this being said, I think it is important that no one is ridiculed for their looks at all. When I see a girl in my 9 a.m. class who wears a full face of makeup and had her haired perfectly straightened I think to myself, "You go, girl!" When I see a girl at 2 p.m. still in her pajamas, I think, "good for you!" I'm not the only girl out there who cares about her looks for her own pleasure only. Us girls need to stick together and support one another instead of jumping to conclusions about something so vain as to how someone else looks.

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13 Style Mistakes Every Girl Made In The 2000s

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1. Crimped Hair

2. Straightened Side Bangs With Curly Hair

3. Jeans under skirts

4. A "poof" with two braids

...thanks Lizzie Mcguire

5. The solo "poof" with straight hair

Lauren Conrad made this acceptable, right?

6. All silver or light blue eye shadow

7. Too Much Eyeliner

8. "Emo" hair

9. Ponchos

10. Tank Tops Over T-Shirts

11. Those "shrug" Half Sweaters that tied in the middle *cringe*

12. The uggs, graphic t, jean skirt, and leggings combo.

13. Stretching our tank tops way down under a tight T-shirt... Layers are trendy, right?

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No, Blondes Don't Have More Fun

Assumptions of personality traits based on hair color are lies.


Blondes are notorious for two things: the "dumb blonde" stereotype and the phrase "blondes have more fun" (which, up until recently, I didn't realize originates from a Dolly Parton song).

I spent my entire life as a blonde up until the moment I bought brown hair dye on a whim and changed the color of my hair nearly a month ago. Since doing so, the phrase "blondes have more fun" sounds like utter rubbish.

I feel as though I engage in more "crazy" activities since becoming a brunette: vaping, participating in activities I would have never considered trying before. Sure, I could chalk this up to me feeling like a different, changed person with the idea "new hair, new me."

The thing that gets me, though, is that I feel like I have been granted permission to "have fun" because I'm no longer weighed down by the "dumb blonde" stereotype. Before, I was so concerned about not doing something stupid or saying something stupid; if I did, I was feeding into the stereotype. Now, there's no weight attached. I no longer worry about appearing stupid.

Putting this aside, a hair color doesn't define someone's personality. It's silly to think that way.

I went from blonde to brunette, and I have no intention to go back anytime soon.

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