"New Year, New Me!!" is a phrase that has become trite and tiresome over the years. I'm sure almost everyone has made New Year's resolutions, whether it be to workout more, eat healthier, spend less time on the internet, you name it. Personally, I've had the same resolution for a few years now: to write more. And every year, I get so distracted with other things and writing academically that I never make time to sit down and write creatively.

But this year, I have given up on New Year's resolutions. Don't get me wrong, I think it's great if someone wants to change their life in a new year. But for me, I can only stay motivated to achieve my resolution for so long and I usually give up before mid-January anyway. I think this is how resolutions turn out for many people as well--they are only motivated for a little bit, then give up. In fact, according to Forbes, only 8% of people attain their New Year's resolutions. I'm definitely part of the 92% here, but I'm okay with it. It doesn't make me a failure or define my abilities to reach goals.

I think that part of the problem with New Year's resolutions is that many people's goals are too big or ambitious. Again, I'm all for following your dreams, but sometimes goals may be unrealistic or unattainable for someone's life at the time. Even if you don't feel like your goal is too big, it might be when it comes down to it. At least, that's what happens to me. I never feel motivated or have the time for it with the events of everyday life.

I also think that if someone wants to make a change in their life or do something different, they shouldn't wait for a new year. Every day is a new opportunity to change and grow, and you don't need a New Year's resolution to do that!