I see many people judging individuals based on the choices that they have made in their lives. Is it right to judge someone for a choice that will make them happy? I see it in my life everyday in all aspects of it. The point is that it's unfair to judge somebody for something that does not apply to the person making judgements. How would you feel if someone told you how to live your life? Judging someone is basically the same thing as telling them that their choices in life will get them nowhere. Nobody has a right to judge anyone unless they have walked in that person's shoes.
I have seen many individuals judge others based on their sexuality. A person is a person no matter who they are attracted to. If a man likes another man or woman likes another woman then that should be allowed. Allow people to be attracted to whoever they want. The reason many judge homosexuals is because many have not walked in the shoes of someone who has those feelings. What if someone said you couldn't love a person that made you happy? How would you feel? I'm not a homosexual. I don't feel what a homosexual male feels towards another man, but just because I don't feel that way doesn't mean I should make people with those feelings feel bad for their life choices.
Another thing I see is people judging others based off appearance. Just because a girl or guy is a little overweight doesn't mean they should be completely overlooked. Looks are not everything. Just because someone might not look like a supermodel does not mean they are ugly. A good heart and good personality lasts a lifetime, looks go away in a few years. I'm a decent looking guy. I'm in alright shape for my age and weight, but I don't judge others appearances. I don't judge appearances because I know there are things that certain people have that I don't.
I'm currently in college, I see a daily occurrence of students being judged for the things they are choosing to study. Judged on the fact that they won't find a job or make a lot of money. Why should someone be judged on a field of study that makes him or her happy. Money does not equal happiness. Would you rather have a job that paid six figures, but everyday you are miserable? Would you rather have a job that paid enough, but everyday you are happy as can be? I don't judge people in this category, but this is a category that I am judged on a lot. I am majoring in Outdoor Leadership. I constantly get judged for majoring in this field of study. I don't understand why people judge my career choice, because they don't understand the passion I have for the outdoors.
Don't judge others for the things that make them happy. Don't allows others to judge you for the things that make you happy.
It's your life and you only live once.
