A recent and exceedingly popular trend among 20-somethings is the trend of tattooing. Unlike brightly-colored hair and nose rings, however, tattoos are a permanent decision most kids seem to be making on a temporary feeling.
Don't get me wrong, I love tattoos. I have three of my own and I know many others who have them. They are a form of self-expression, and I see no reason why they should be shamed or discouraged. But the sad truth is that lots of people still judge those of us who choose to get tatted.
That being said, I am by no means telling you not to get a tattoo. I'm simply saying that taking these things into consideration will help you get a tattoo you won't regret -- and maybe make it a little easier to tell your 'rents.
1. Is it meaningful?
There is no requirement that a tattoo has to be anything other than a beautiful design you saw and fell in love with. However, we need to acknowledge that at our age, our taste is constantly changing. It is best to find something related to a family member, story or quote that really resonates with you. That way you'll think of the meaning behind it every time you look at it, instead of "what the hell was I thinking?"
2. Is the placement ideal?
Wherever you decide to put this tattoo is where it will stay forever. Do you really want to walk around with a taco permanently inked into your arm? (OK, so maybe you would. But at least put it somewhere less visible!) This is not to say a lovely wrist, collarbone or ankle tattoo should be avoided (in fact, two of mine are on my ankles). Just err on the side of caution before placing a large tattoo in the middle of your leg that you will have a hard time covering up unless you wear pants.
3. Have I done my research?
This may be the most important tip on this list. The artist and tattoo shop you choose to go to is a huge factor in what kind of tattoo you get. The shop should be clean, the artist should be reputable, and they should provide any and all information you request. A true professional will have no problem showing you around the shop or letting you peak into his or her portfolio. They should proud of their work and establishment.
4. Did I get a price estimate?
Tattoos are an expensive investment, but they are a one-time investment. Sure, a $70 price ticket may seem intimidating. When it comes down to it, though, $70 for a beautifully done permanent piece of artwork is totally worth it. Just make sure you get an estimate from your artist beforehand, and account for a $10 to $15 as well. If you don't have enough money to cover cost plus tip (keep in mind, they often overestimate), wait until you do.
5. Did I base my decision on price?
All tattoo shops have different starting values. These are non-negotiable. If their tattoos start at $50 expect to pay at least $60. Pick a parlor based on personal comfort, cleanliness and professionalism, not price. It's something that will be on your body forever. Does it really matter if it costs $80?
6. Did I double-check the transfer?
Do I even need to elaborate on this one? Spend a few minutes staring at the transfer before starting. Don't be in such a rush to get tattooed that you let your artist butcher it, especially if it involves script. Remember, spelling is very important. He may not have any "ragrets," but you might if you end up with a tattoo like his.
7. Did I let someone else change my mind?
It's your body. So what if your boyfriend doesn't like where you want to put it or your mom doesn't like the font you picked out? It's your tattoo. If you let other people change your mind on aspects you had your heart set on, you will end up disappointed with the results (not to mention a little resentful to whomever persuaded you to do it differently). It doesn't matter if the tattoo is absolutely gorgeous. It's not what you wanted, and you will always remember that.
8. Am I drunk or high?
Do you really want to end up with a Ted Mosby butterfly above your butt crack? Bottom line: if you've been drinking, smoking or using any type of drug, avoid avoid avoid. There are plenty of other impulsive choices you can make that don't require permanent alteration to your body (though I wouldn't recommend doing those, either).
9. Have I spent enough time with the design?
Get your artist to draw up a sketch for you and hang it somewhere visible so you have to see it on a regular basis. Better yet, set it as the background on your phone. If you get sick of seeing it quickly, chances are you won't enjoy it being inked onto your bicep for the rest of your life. Seeing the design frequently throughout the decision making process is crucial to know whether or not it is a passing infatuation or something you genuinely love.
10. Have I waited long enough to know I love it?
The short answer: wait at least six months (a year is preferable). This is not the same as randomly going and cutting 10 inches off your hair and dying it purple. Hair grows back. Hair can be dyed. Ink is permanent. (Yes, I have said the word "permanent" a lot, because it is very important to know that this tattoo will last forever.)
Don't rush it. I know six months to a year feels like an excruciatingly long time, but it's not. It is such a short amount of your life to contemplate major decisions like this. If you spend one year of your life committing to the perfect tattoo design, placement, price and shop location, you will spend the next several so grateful that you waited. Trust me.
