The excitement is through the roof! The nerves are exploding! Who is going to be my Big?! Is it who I wanted??
Advice: Stop and enjoy this moment. This is one of the best moments of your journey into being a Sister!
Don’t worry about anything; your big has been working and preparing for you with thoughts and gifts. No matter what your big is going to be there for you. Well, She better be! But honestly, now that I have been where you are I understand how much time and effort Bigs put in before Big/Little Reveal day. The worrying if their little is going to like them and all the gifts they just spent countless hours making. However, we already know for that moment when you run up to them, you will be so excited to finally get your Big. The smile on your face is our reward!
Let nothing come in the way of this moment; enjoy it.
However, I must warm you it is both the little and big’s responsibility to communicate. The big/little relationships you see that are super tight do not just magically appear. Talk, hang out, get to know each other. Make this sister-ship your own. But know that if you don’t hang out all time or talk constantly, that it will be okay! That’s mine relationship, and I know at the end of that day she will be there if I truly need her. She is my big no matter what!
When you need someone to hold you while you cry, she will be there.
When you need someone to rant to, she will be there.
When you need someone to eat junk with, she will be there.
When you need advice, she is there.
When you need a random road trip, she is there.
When you need to talk about your future, she is there.
When you need your Big, she will be there!
Sisterhood is what you make it. Your big will welcome you with open arms! Open yours back and enjoy this moment! Be there for her!
It’s big little time. You are going to love it!
