Dear Best Friend, Thank You For Being A Blessing In Disguise

Dear Best Friend, Thank You For Being A Blessing In Disguise

You mean the world to me

Who knew talking about boys would lead to something good for once?

I've had many friends throughout my life who I thought would stick with me through everything; although most of them have drifted away I finally found you. Someone that's got my back even when I'm not making the wisest choices. We've bumped heads here and there over materialistic things but came back to our senses eventually. We can talk to each other without being embarrassed even things you question to even bring up to anyone; yet you lack judgment you help me improve myself for the better. Thank you for that.

We met in 9th grade; I was a terrified student longing to have more friends so I could feel like I "fit" in. After I met you I felt like I actually had someone to like me for who I was. All throughout high school we did everything together; we auditioned for the musical together, played sports, went to church, Campus Life, school dances, parties, camping trips and drama class (who knew we could be dramatic right?).

I'm so fortunate to have a shoulder to cry on when I need it the most; and when I ask you to listen, you actually listen, unlike others that tell me I need to move on or get over it. You give me the best advice on situations and I wouldn't be the person I am today without you.

Tenth-grade year you got me through my first real break up.. and well the rest of them. You've given me such high spirits when I didn't think I deserved to be happy; you've taught me to not let anyone walk all over me and make me feel like I'm anything less of what I really am.

You've given me so much strength and dignity for myself and I could never thank you enough for the endless support and love you give me. I appreciate it, and I appreciate you.

Even when we're far away we always keep in touch; when you went away to college my heart was completely shattered to hear that you'd be going 75 miles away from me but at the same time I was extremely proud for following your dreams. I was worried our friendship would end like past friendships when we've separated; nevertheless, when you came back it was like you had never left. We instantly went back to our old routines; spending any time we could together. That's when I knew our bond was inseparable.

Thank you for teaching me to appreciate life how it is from spontaneous trips driving in the car singing at the top of our lungs when One Direction or Ariana Grande comes on to doing photo shoots and sleepovers at papa's house. Thank you for treating my family like your own and letting me share yours. Thank you for making the past five years some of the best years of my life. Thank you for starting and ending high school with me. Most important thank you for being you.

Stay sassy!

Love you forever Clark.


Cover Image Credit: Erika Sheets

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To The Strong Friend Of The Group, It's OK To Cry

Sometimes your strong friend needs a shoulder to lean on.


I am the strong friend of my group.

You know, that friend that never really lets their emotions get the best of them. The friend that everyone calls when they're having an extremely crappy day. The friend that always has an empty shoulder and just the right words when you've gone through your third relational break-up.

I am that friend.

Its like some sort of inevitable thing, every friend group has one. But, has anyone ever thought to ask how the strong friend is holding up? I can guarantee you, nine times out of ten we're barely making it. We never think to push our problems on others so we'd rather ignore our own to help our friends fix theirs. We're certainly headstrong when it comes to ourselves but understanding when it comes to those we care about. I'll admit, sometimes it gets tough being this friend. I'd place most of the reasoning behind the notion that because we put up such a tough exterior everyone may feel as though we're fine.

As the strong friend, I'm here to tell you: its okay to cry. Its okay to let your guard down.You don't have to be strong 24/7 and unless you're some sort of robot, you have emotions too. I know it can be tough because its something we're not used to and kind of weird because we're actually on the opposite side of the spectrum. I guess the saying is true, "sometimes you just have to cry it out."

Now, I'm not talking full blown therapy sessions here. But, every now and again call your closest friend and try telling them when you've had a bad day. Call them when you're anxious about that job interview you had, you know the one you've been busting your butt for. Don't worry, they'll be more than understanding and more than willing to be able to make their "strong friend" feel good for once.

The main point of all of my ranting is this—after taking care of everyone else we have to think, "Are we taking care of ourselves?"

Being the strong friend can be debilitating, but we cant become so consumed with everyone else's problems that we forget about our own. Bottled up emotions are the worst ones. So strong friend, next time you're feeling sad, mad, happy or glad let it out; scream and shout and tell your closest friends what it was all about.

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