Rory Gilmore is what we all once aspired to be.

Her cute looks, witty personality, her ability to eat whatever whenever, and of course her brains, are just some of her qualities that we were all extremely jealous of. Although her situation in life, living with mom Lorelai in Stars Hollow, is very un-relatable, we can all agree with and relate to her love life. Here is a look at some of Rory’s famous and infamous relationships that can be used as the floor plan of all of our love lives.

The High School Sweetheart

This is the relationship that we think is by far the best. We are completely “in love” and literally believe that this is the person we are supposed to spend our lives with. Usually the break ups are absolutely terrible, and we truly think that the world is ending. This type of relationship is usually the type to allow us to look back at happy memories, but now no better to never go back to.

The Badboy

This is the relationship that follows relatively quickly after the high school sweetheart. This boy is mysterious, passionate, and usually an asshole. We think we can change them or that they will grow up and change for us. These types of relationships usually end badly and dramatically, at a low point in our lives. We eventually grow out of it, and so do they. When they come back however the roles have changed and you have moved on.

The One

Right when we are about to give up on relationships, we meet someone completely unexpected. He will not look like the guy you thought he would, but he will be the one. The best things happen unexpectedly.