Being in a relationship is one of the best feelings in the world. You call each other just to say hi, text 24/7, and blow up your Instagram feed with silly pictures of yourselves. You become best friends with your boyfriend and it's like a fairytale. Then out of nowhere it stops. It all ends and you get left behind to pick up the pieces and ask why? Why did it end? A million thoughts start to fill your brain. Did I not do enough? What did I do wrong? You're devastated. You spent every day with him and said 'I love you' and now he's gone. Months down the road after you've finally learned to go on without him, you learn he left because you were "too clingy." Wait, what? Too clingy? Why would someone want to leave a person that has so much love to give and doesn't care to show it?
People associate the word clingy with desperate. Desperate means you'll take whatever you can get whether you like it or not. If you find yourself in a clingy relationship, instead of assuming the girl is crazy, or obsessed with you, take the time to notice that she is trying to show you how much love she has to offer. The girl who clings to you has been pushed away by others and knows how much it hurts to not feel love. She'll make sure you never feel those things or wonder if she loves you. She'll give you a kind of love you won't find with someone else. She knows what it's like to feel forgotten, broken, and not good enough. She'll remind you every day how much she loves you, she'll make sure you know she's always there for you, and constantly tell you how much you're appreciated. She wants to make sure you never have to feel unwanted like she has.
Date the clingy girl. Give her a chance to show you what all she has to offer. She'll listen to you and the problems you have. She'll love you and show you her love for you no matter what. She will help you and encourage you. She wants to give you all her love and be your biggest fan. She'll take a million pictures with you and post every single one just to show people how much she loves you. She will kiss a hundred times a day to remind you she's in love with you. Date the clingy girl because she's the one who cares the most.
