The first years of marriage are the sweetest for many. This is a real acquaintance of partners, the desire to build a family together, and new and unexplored opportunities for two people to love each other and create their own history together. For some, this condition lasts a lifetime, while others after 20-30 or even 40 years of living together could understand: they still love each other, but now in a completely different way.
And someone immediately admits to his partner that he likes very special family scenarios, games, and ways to have a good weekend. If we talk about cuckold relationships, you would be surprised how common this story is today. Someone comes to this kind of philosophy of family life immediately, while others simply discover its potential many years later. Of course, someone will not be interested in this topic at all, but for those who want to make life a little more interesting, all paths are open.
What is the cuckold wife's role in the family?
Imagine that a woman in her 40s and 45s suddenly finds herself in a dilemma:
- peaceful family life, or;
- the second youth and all its charms?
And also:
- hide her adventures from your husband, or;
- make him their accomplice?
And what if you don't have to give up all the delights of your family life, but you will be able to realize all your fantasies? There is only one “but” - this is a contract with your spouse or an agreement between spouses about how they will build their personal life.
And if earlier the prospect of inviting someone else into your marriage and bed looked absurd, then taking into account the new rules, this could be the perfect weekend adventure or become your lifestyle.
A woman who can choose
Many people believe that a cuckold wife is an ideal scenario for those who have cooled down a little in marriage and want to rekindle the flame. You can agree with your husband on how this will happen - who makes the choice? He can choose and offer you, candidates, himself. Young colleagues, or even the boss? Neighbors, a new guy from the gym ... or only the wife has the right to choose.
The second point that should be understood - is the place of a husband in this new reality, and how deeply he will be involved in the process.
- He will not be present at all, but he will be happy to listen to your dating stories, and see photos or videos.
- He wants to observe, but secretly, through a keyhole, for example.
- He wants to watch and be around all the time.
- His wife lets him participate!
- And one of the most extreme options: he will play the role of an obedient servant who will fulfill the wishes of his wife and her new friends.
Of course, it is worth agreeing that each of the participants will be able to exit the game at any time if he becomes uncomfortable. But, there is no need to worry too much, if you and your wife have already reached the discussion of your role, then both of you are very interested in this topic!
Can a cuckold scenario ruin a marriage?
Maybe yes, if you weren't honest with each other from the very beginning. Do you give your wife complete freedom for her entertainment, volunteering to watch or participate, but really don't want it? Then, of course, it can become a deep emotional trauma. The main thing here is for everyone to have fun.
After all, the cuckold gets his own pleasure from the whole process, the spectacle, his participation, and even his humiliation. If it is not about you, and it only causes pain - you have to admit that the cuckold wife theme is not for you. Similarly, a woman can understand that dreams sometimes have to remain just dreams. Or maybe after the first time, you both decide that it was a great adventure, but you don't want to repeat it?
