We've all been there. That season of our lives where, no matter what we do, what's "normal" just doesn't feel the way it once did. This applies to nearly every aspect of life -- a job, relationship, lifestyle or belief. Everything that used to make sense and used to give you comfort just doesn't have the same appeal. It might make you feel stressed or nervous, and accepting this fact is perhaps even more terrifying than the fact that you just don't have the same joy. It is terrifying, stepping out on faith and changing the normal you are used to, but it's important to recognize that changes in life are normal. In fact, they have to happen. Making that change isn't always easy, but when you know you have to do something, you have to do it. If you are stuck in a rut or need some courage to make a change, here are the three things that always, always, always remind me that I am brave enough to do whatever is best for me.
1. "Things that belong together are sure to come together."
I think "Anne of Green Gables" (or Lucy M. Montgomery, the author) said it best. Things that are meant to be will come together. Be it now or years down the road, if it is meant to be, it will happen. Maybe you didn't get the job you had been dreaming about since you could walk and you feel like everything you have worked for has suddenly gone down the drain. But remember that if things are meant to happen, they will. Allow yourself time to reflect and prepare for what is next. Perhaps you weren't ready for this job yet, but something bigger and better is coming. Allow yourself this time for God to mold you into the person He needs you to be.
2. Lay down what's good and find what's best.
Sometimes the things in our lives that are good for us aren't meant to stay in our lives. Sometimes the people we know and love and the relationships we are in are only meant to be for a season of our lives. Maybe you just got out of a relationship. It's OK and natural to be upset, but remember that God doesn't put you in situations unless He knows that you can handle it. While it is scary, how amazing does it feel to know that God is using this time in your life to prepare you for someone (or something) that is best for you? Maybe you thought you loved this person with all of your heart. While that may be true, imagine how much more love you are going to feel for the person who is best for you, not just good. We have no idea of God's plan for our lives. I can't wait to see where and who God leads me to.
3. Self-confidence looks beautiful on you.
Stepping out on faith, whether you are religious or not, is always scary. Nothing about it feels comforting and even if you are surrounded by friends and family, you probably feel alone. But guess what? You did it. Even if it was just as awful as you had imagined, you did it. And that is brave. That is courageous and honorable. And you should be proud. Now that you have conquered that challenge, don't you feel more confident and sure of yourself? If you aren't happy with the way things in your life are going, then go make a change! You'll never know anything different if you stay in the rut you are in. What are you waiting for?
