One of my favorite people in the whole world is my cousin, Julie. She was born a few months before me on October 18, 1998. To preface, this is a girl who is a true diva. She was homecoming queen, a champion of the Special Olympics, and a standout celebrity in her hometown and throughout New Jersey. There’s just one thing that makes her just a tad more special than most of us, she was born with Down Syndrome.

There are so many things I have learned from Julie over the years and so many things I admire about her. First off, her level of confidence is something I truly envy. When it comes to social situations and being in large groups, she is fearless. Not only is she fearless, but she is often the center of attention. She’s the center of attention because she shows so much love for others and that is a rare thing in society. Although she may be a little different than some of us, she is herself no matter what. She volunteers, she goes out with friends, and she cares about her family and friends. Isn’t that what we all strive to be?

So many people don’t understand those who have disabilities, not to say that I am perfect, but many are scared to give those people a chance. I say to this, sit down and just talk or don’t talk with someone who has a disability. Often just your presence can be enough. It is a misconstrued belief that people with disabilities lack the ability to truly connect with others, but I am almost positive that is a completely false statement. You know how I know? Because every time I am around Julie, I feel so loved by her and so much love for her and I think that says it all right there.