Some stay in one place for their whole life, others have the opportunity to wander.
Growing up in sunny, Danville California, I never thought I would leave. My house was my castle, and I was the princess. I ruled my kingdom, and no one could break down its walls. Until one day, a moving truck appeared. I was whisked away to dreary Oregon, and never looked back.
Moving is a tricky thing, especially when you are young. Suddenly you must adjust to a whole new school, and make an entirely new friend group. You have to look at your new house and imagine it to be your castle again. Not only is moving physically hard, but its also a very emotional experience. In Oregon, my family moved to an apartment, to a house, and then to a different house in another school district. I have gone through making new friends and adjusting to new schools so many times I believe it is, by now, second nature to me. From Oregon, my parents and I made the trek to Illinois, where I was fortunate to spend most of my middle school years as well as high school. In all honestly, moving sucks, and it is something I would not wish upon anyone. However, moving has also made me stronger, and better acclimated to new surroundings. I have met more people who have blessed my life with their presence, and have had my fair share of ups and downs.
When I think about it, moving can be a positive thing. I am able to say that I have lived in more than just one state. I lived on the West Coast, and The Midwest. I have experienced beautiful oceans, and sailing across San Fransisco Bay. I have been to the "Windy City", and I've melted in the horrid humid summers of Illinois. I have adjusted to many walks of life, and I have learned an important thing or two along the way:
1. Don't be judgmental.
I have come into contact with all kinds of people, and you have to keep an open mind. If you go into a new place with no expectations, the outcome will be so much better. You cannot judge a book by its cover, and that goes for people but it also works with states too.
2. Stay positive.
Moving can be a real drag, and there are definitely low points that you will go through. You gotta keep your head up, and march on. Not only will things get better, but they will get easier too. Take it from someone with experience!
3. Keep in touch with old friends.
Making new friends is awesome, but don't forget to keep the old. I have friends, in Oregon, California, and Illinois. Even though we don't talk every day, it is nice to shoot an old buddy a text and get a reply.
4. Get to know your community.
Go visit the town, take in all the shops and new buildings. Go try that little coffee shop sitting on the corner, or do homework in the local library. If you familiarize yourself with your surroundings, it makes it easier to feel comfortable.
5. Get a job.
Obtaining a new job in your town or close to where you live can enable you to meet people easier.
My family has recently moved to Wisconsin, and although I am in college, I must make that new home my castle once again, and its town my kingdom. Some of you may be able to relate, and maybe others have never moved once. Regardless, I hope this article gives you insight on what its like, and what can help.
