What Your College Acceptance Letter Doesn't Tell You
Start writing a post
Student Life

What Your College Acceptance Letter Doesn't Tell You

For the love of your mom and dad, apply for as many scholarships as you can.

27
What Your College Acceptance Letter Doesn't Tell You
Pinterest

You've probably been told that college is going to be the best four years of your life. You've probably been told that college is harder than high school and that you'll lose some friendships from high school and gain some as well. Your acceptance letter can get you hype to finally move away from mom and dad. But, I bet these are things it doesn't tell you.

1. You are going to have to take care of everything yourself.

Yourself, your laundry, your class registration, even your friends at times, especially if you're the friend who's the "mom." Get ready to kiss your parents, teachers, school counselors, and people who have taken care of you goodbye. It's now all up to you. You're not going to have teachers who are going to tell you when things are due; you're not going to have counselors who help you pick out your classes, and you're definitely not going to have mom there to do your laundry for you. Take in these blessings now while you have them and get ready to be an adult.

2. College is a business.

You will be paying back loans for years. For the love of your mom and dad, apply for as many scholarships as you can! The school you're going to may seem like they're doing you a favor by "giving" you free t-shirts and such, but really, they just want to make money off of you. Don't forget about tuition, room and board, the meal plan, parking (if you're lucky enough), and other miscellaneous costs. Start saving as much as you possibly can!

3. You are no longer at the top of your class.

Your dream school is no longer just your dream school. There are plenty of other people who are more skilled, more advanced and smarter than you are. This is especially true if you're going to a large, competitive school. You have to remember that everyone else who was at the top of their class got in, too.

4. Your professors are not people you can be rude to, ridicule, or treat like crap (But I hope you don't do this to your high school teachers now...)

These professors have your grade in their hands. These are people who could possibly be helpful in the near future (recommendations, networks, etc.), so you need to have professional etiquette with them at all times.

5. Not everyone will have the same perspective as you do, respect that.

Just because someone has a different political, religious, or social justice belief than you do, doesn't mean they are a bad or weird person. This could open your eyes to the whole world from your narrow, small home-town world. This doesn't mean you have to agree with everything they say and change your beliefs. It just means that you should learn how to communicate with someone who thinks differently than you do and learn how to discuss your disagreements respectfully.

6. College is what you make it.

It could be the best four years of your life or the worst four years. It's all in what you make out of it. It is true that college isn't for everyone, but for who it is for, make the most of it. Learn as much as you can, take various classes outside your major, and make friends with people you never thought you would. As long as you grow and become a better version of yourself, I'd say you had a good college experience.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

86488
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less
a man and a woman sitting on the beach in front of the sunset

Whether you met your new love interest online, through mutual friends, or another way entirely, you'll definitely want to know what you're getting into. I mean, really, what's the point in entering a relationship with someone if you don't know whether or not you're compatible on a very basic level?

Consider these 21 questions to ask in the talking stage when getting to know that new guy or girl you just started talking to:

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

Challah vs. Easter Bread: A Delicious Dilemma

Is there really such a difference in Challah bread or Easter Bread?

52415
loaves of challah and easter bread stacked up aside each other, an abundance of food in baskets
StableDiffusion

Ever since I could remember, it was a treat to receive Easter Bread made by my grandmother. We would only have it once a year and the wait was excruciating. Now that my grandmother has gotten older, she has stopped baking a lot of her recipes that require a lot of hand usage--her traditional Italian baking means no machines. So for the past few years, I have missed enjoying my Easter Bread.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments