Politics is inevitably a touchy subject. Opposing views can differ drastically coming from the far left and far right ends of the political spectrum. A mistake that many, many folks make is constantly bringing up the subject of politics with people who may have differing views. A far leftie does not want to discuss a far rightie's views, and vice versa.
A heated debate regarding politics is something that people like to avoid at all costs. But it's hard when someone is throwing their unwanted, dissimilar views in someone's face. Politics is just something that people are passionate about, whether it be for one party in particular, or for a more focused issue. It's just not something you discuss with people with differing views, complete strangers or even acquaintances. It can hinder a relationship or an outlook on someone as a person.
Don't go fishing for information on someone's political views, or their political preference. It's personal and chances are, the person does not want to share that information with you. It's actually quite uncomfortable when a busy body tries to stick their nose into those opinions. And it's even more uncomfortable when they find out you don't have the same views as them.
If someone shares a political post on Facebook, don't comment a snarky, rude remark. You can have your views in peace and they can have theirs in peace. As much as it might kill you to hold back some curt rebuttal, do it. It'll spare you a relationship and a potentially awkward encounter with that person.
If you commonly find yourself in an online political quarrel, maybe you should reflect on how many potentially offensive political posts you share. It's understood that snarky remarks should be refrained from, but to assure that no political argument will be initiated, reduce or eliminate the posts that reflect your views.
You will not convince the person with opposing views to think the same as you. You just won't. It's pretty much a proven fact. People love their opinions and believe they are right in all cases. It's very likely their views won't budge. So, it's better off not attempting them to sway their views to yours at all.
Some people just don't understand how fatal some fiery discussion about politics can be to a relationship. A person might think, "Wow, you believe that?" and a relationship can take a sharp turn for the worse, due to the natural state of American politics. Views have become so polarized from one another, it's often very difficult to participate in a level headed, normal discussion about politics. Much hatred is involved in it today, and spewing that hatred is unflattering. Folks spew their views close-mindedly and one-sidedly, which makes discussing the issues that face our country unpleasing and counterintuitive.
When in doubt, don't discuss politics with people who have opposing views, or you're unsure of their views. It'll save you your breath or your typing energy. It'll help you avoid awkward encounters and preserve relationships. It's worth keeping your mouth shut.
