Now is the time everyone is deciding on where to go to college and what will be the right fit for them. My first year at college has been a whirlwind of emotions and here're some things I think everyone going to college should know.
1. It is nothing like you expect
I am a very social person and expected to make friends instantly, go out all the time and love the "college experience." I quickly realized that I missed home constantly and making friends was a struggle. I even joined and dropped a sorority thinking it would help me make new friends. Eventually, I did make friends and have found out that I hate partying and would rather hike, visit the city, or hang in my dorm.
2. People are going to judge your college
I've had many people tell me that my school isn't a "real" college and that I wasn't having a good time because of my choice to go here. THAT IS SO WRONG. My college is just as real as any other college in the state and I didn't get a 4.0 first semester because it's easy, I worked my butt off for all A's. I was so wrapped up in what everyone thought about my school that I hated my first semester when I stopped caring what others thought and focused on why I choose my school I loved it so much more. Everyone fits at a certain college just like everyone fits with a certain person. Do not judge someone based on their college choice.
3. You'll probably consider dropping out about 10000x
When this happens you need to look at it very seriously. Is there something you'd rather be doing that you have a passion for and need to take some time off or is it simply not liking school. I constantly make lists of the pros of college and you need to remember that not everyone gets this opportunity so don't take it for granted. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO GO TO COLLEGE TO BE SUCCESSFUL. Does it give you a better chance and opportunity in some fields? Yes. But it doesn't make you a failure if you choose not to go to college.
4. College is fun
It is a time for growing and changing as a person. You become passionate about a subject and start working towards your dreams. After choosing a major and getting into those classes I enjoyed learning again and met people with the same passions as me. It is an amazing time no matter where you attend school.
At the end of your life it isn't going to matter what college you went to and if you got the best "college experience" it matters what you do with your life and how you impact others. Your degree does not define you. Your college does not define you. God is going to use you wherever you go and if you think going to a certain school makes you better than someone else you're wrong. I feel like people put so much pressure on this decision when it is so minuscule in comparison to the rest of your life. Truth be told there isn’t a “right” college to attend.
