Ah, spring rush is upon us. The time for perfect makeup, coordinated outfits and small talk is back. While I empty my pockets over new tops and shoes, I pray for quality girls. Since joining Greek life my sophomore year, my life has been exciting to say the least. I have developed as woman, become more confident, and found friends and sisters for life. Don’t get me wrong, the parties, socials and formals are a blast. However I can genuinely say my favorite part are the values and friends I have made.
Like all good things, there are a few bad things that come along with it. That’s why I really hope Greek recruits young women who can be the positive change Greek needs.
In the past few decades, the life of sorority women has made leaps and bounds. Sorority houses are no longer full of strictly rich white women. In my chapter, we have Blacks, Asians, plus-size women, and so much more. I take pride in the diversity. It excites me that we are so loving and accepting. Nationally, over 800,000 community service hours are earned by Greeks each year. Over $7,000,000 is raised each year from Greek life for charities. Greek life builds leaders, molds strong groups, and encourages personal growth.
However, there are things I wish could change within Greek life. It is sad that many Greek members are stuck in a high school mentality. So much pettiness. Sometimes if you aren’t skinny enough or pretty enough, you aren’t accepted by organizations. People start negatively associating letters with qualities, such as being know for having fat members, bitchy girls, lower grades, or sleeping around.
Yes, every organization holds different values, but in the end, we are all united to grow and develop into positive leaders of our communities. We are supposed to come together and serve. We should not be casting out people because of weight, ethnicity, personality, or whatever else. It is sad that as a plus size girl I have been publicly humiliated, teased, and ridiculed in front of an entire organization because of what I look like. And I wasn’t even causing any harm. I was simply hanging out and enjoying a party.
Potential new members, do not fear Greek. It is a wonderful experience full of opportunities and open doors. Embrace and enjoy it. While you do that, be the change you want to see in Greek life. Open your mind and put away any arrogance, harsh feelings, or stereotypes. Diversity is what makes the organizations stronger. I believe if we start recruiting young men and women with a positive mindset, we can truly improve Greek life.
