I Can't Be Me Without My Best Friends

I Can't Be Me Without My Best Friends

An open letter to my best friend...and why you shouldn't live without one.

I would like to say that I am a very independent person—whether that is a good or a bad thing, I like to push my limits as an individual and I enjoy doing things on my own. As much as I like to be independent, I couldn't imagine living alone. Living in a world without a best friend. Whether I am home or far away, I know that without my best friends, I wouldn't be able to be the person I am today.

To my best friend: Thank you dearly for loving me at my high and lows. Thank you truly for appreciating everything that I have to offer and always seeing me in my best light. You are such a light in my life and I couldn't imagine my life without you by my side. You appreciate a good PJ party and dressing up and looking grand.

I never have to "pretend" or put up a front because you know the real me—so thank you for taking time to want to see me for who I am.

Why you shouldn't live without having a best friend:


The comfort a best friend can give is unlike anything else. While we have families and usually some sort of support system, the truth and love a best friend can give isn't the same. I feel comforted knowing my best friend has my back, even though things may not always be okay.

Best Secret Keeper

Whether you are a private person or not, there are always secrets that need to be shared. I am thankful that I have found a person that can confide in me and that I can confide in, as well. Sharing and not keeping things bottled up are ingredients to living a healthier lifestyle. Telling secrets might not always be the best thing—but knowing you have a person that is willing to guard your heart is something beautiful.

You should always have a "person" that isn't a significant other

I would call my two best friends my people. I couldn't imagine my life without them. Depending only on a significant other for all your needs is a terrible idea. You need a person that knows you unlike anyone else, is there through the thick and thin, and is someone that can understand things that significant others can't.

Appreciates and motivates you

"Bragging" is not a thing when it comes to a best friend. A best friend is there to cheer you on and for you to do the same. You know what each other deserve and won't stop until they reach their fullest potential.

They have unconditional love

Thank you for the unconditional love and support that you offer. You have such grace and I am so proud of you for accomplishing everything you are. Thank you for caring and being you.

Tag your best friends and let them know how much you love and appreciate them!

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8 Reasons Why My Dad Is the Most Important Man In My Life

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Growing up, there's been one consistent man I can always count on, my father. In any aspect of my life, my dad has always been there, showing me unconditional love and respect every day. No matter what, I know that my dad will always be the most important man in my life for many reasons.

1. He has always been there.

Literally. From the day I was born until today, I have never not been able to count on my dad to be there for me, uplift me and be the best dad he can be.

2. He learned to adapt and suffer through girly trends to make me happy.

I'm sure when my dad was younger and pictured his future, he didn't think about the Barbie pretend pageants, dressing up as a princess, perfecting my pigtails and enduring other countless girly events. My dad never turned me down when I wanted to play a game, no matter what and was always willing to help me pick out cute outfits and do my hair before preschool.

3. He sends the cutest texts.

Random text messages since I have gotten my own cell phone have always come my way from my dad. Those randoms "I love you so much" and "I am so proud of you" never fail to make me smile, and I can always count on my dad for an adorable text message when I'm feeling down.

4. He taught me how to be brave.

When I needed to learn how to swim, he threw me in the pool. When I needed to learn how to ride a bike, he went alongside me and made sure I didn't fall too badly. When I needed to learn how to drive, he was there next to me, making sure I didn't crash.

5. He encourages me to best the best I can be.

My dad sees the best in me, no matter how much I fail. He's always there to support me and turn my failures into successes. He can sit on the phone with me for hours, talking future career stuff and listening to me lay out my future plans and goals. He wants the absolute best for me, and no is never an option, he is always willing to do whatever it takes to get me where I need to be.

6. He gets sentimental way too often, but it's cute.

Whether you're sitting down at the kitchen table, reminiscing about your childhood, or that one song comes on that your dad insists you will dance to together on your wedding day, your dad's emotions often come out in the cutest possible way, forever reminding you how loved you are.

7. He supports you, emotionally and financially.

Need to vent about a guy in your life that isn't treating you well? My dad is there. Need some extra cash to help fund spring break? He's there for that, too.

8. He shows me how I should be treated.

Yes, my dad treats me like a princess, and I don't expect every guy I meet to wait on me hand and foot, but I do expect respect, and that's exactly what my dad showed I deserve. From the way he loves, admires, and respects me, he shows me that there are guys out there who will one day come along and treat me like that. My dad always advises me to not put up with less than I deserve and assures me that the right guy will come along one day.

For these reasons and more, my dad will forever be my No. 1 man. I love you!

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My Boyfriend's Family Helped Me Find My Home Away From Home

Taking "home is where the heart is" to a new level.


I have always heard that one day I will find a place that will feel like my home away from home, specifically with my significant other. Honestly, I couldn't envision loving a place like the way I do my hometown, let alone love it even more. Nonetheless, here I am, sitting in the Little Rock, Arkansas airport tearing up as I say goodbye to my home away from home.

Let me tell you about my hometown. I live in a relatively small town in Wyoming and it has always been my home. My family, friends and work are here in Wyoming. But, there happens to be this man who has my whole entire heart. His hometown is a little town in Arkansas, that also happens to be 17 hours away from me. I came to visit him in his hometown for the first time ever. Not only to see Arkansas for the first time but to see him for the first time in a month and to have the opportunity to meet his family.

I won't lie, meeting parents for the first time is definitely nerve-wracking. It's not that I am hard to get along with, it's the fact that I want them to love me because I love their son and I couldn't conceptualize that ever changing. From the moment I stepped into their home, I was welcomed with big arms and beautiful smiles. His family welcomed me, a complete stranger, into their home with no questions asked. Right away I knew I felt like I was home.

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