You Cannot Heal In The Same Environment That Made You Sick
Start writing a post
Student Life

You Cannot Heal In The Same Environment That Made You Sick

To grow, there must be change.

207
You Cannot Heal In The Same Environment That Made You Sick
Alysha Fauci

I saw a post on twitter really stood out to me; it that said: "You can't heal in the same environment that made you sick." The concept that in order to grow and heal something needs to change is a concept that I have been following for years, and I couldn't even put it into words a few weeks ago.

I'm not going to say my high school experience was bad, but it definitely wasn't great. By the time I graduated I felt so weighed down by negativity. I wanted to escape the toxic environment called high school and get as far away as I could. Which is why I ended up in the middle of nowhere in Pennsylvania.

My first semester of college I saw so much personal growth, I couldn't believe it! I went into the second semester better than ever with so much hope. Then, my growth got a little stagnant. in fact, I became kind of a mess.

I was constantly stressed and overwhelmed, which reach havoc on the way I view life. Conveniently, my little breakdown coincided with summer break. So, I moved back to New Hampshire.

After a lot of crying and my parents' genuine concern and help (pretty sure they thought college made me crazy), my personal growth started back up.

Now, here I am less than two weeks from move-in day of my sophomore year and I feel more prepared than ever. I am a little sad to be leaving but excited for what's to come.



Although I have followed this concept quite literally, there are many ways to take it to heart without packing up your bags and moving to another state. If you feel stagnant and in the wrong mindset find ways to change your environment:

Change your friend group. If you surround yourself with negative and toxic people, you are going to be a negative and toxic person. Letting go of people who you have grown to care about can be scary but sometimes its needed.

Re-organize your room. Clutter can be overwhelming. If your room is always a mess, it could cause you more stress. One of my favorite ways to give freshen up my mindset it to clean up my room.

Make a career or job change. The older you get the more impractical and intimidating this option seems. If you are a high school student and your job makes you miserable, change it!

There is no need to stay at a job you hate when it's so simple for you to find another one. If you are an adult and you feel like you're waste your time every day and are miserable, take a leap of faith and do something about it. Risks have to be made in order to achieve something and feel fulfilled.

Find new places to visit. When you see the same things every day, you stop appreciating its beauty and ultimately stop noticing the beauty in life. Take a trip to the beach, find a mountain to hike, spend a day in the city, walk in a garden. You will be surprised how finding the beauty in life can have such a positive impact on the way you see things.

No matter the way you decide to make changes within your life, to heal and grow it starts with your mindset. Physical changes make mental and emotional changed seem easier. But you have to make the decision to see things differently. Make the change and watch yourself shine.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

53010
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less
a man and a woman sitting on the beach in front of the sunset

Whether you met your new love interest online, through mutual friends, or another way entirely, you'll definitely want to know what you're getting into. I mean, really, what's the point in entering a relationship with someone if you don't know whether or not you're compatible on a very basic level?

Consider these 21 questions to ask in the talking stage when getting to know that new guy or girl you just started talking to:

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

Challah vs. Easter Bread: A Delicious Dilemma

Is there really such a difference in Challah bread or Easter Bread?

34057
loaves of challah and easter bread stacked up aside each other, an abundance of food in baskets
StableDiffusion

Ever since I could remember, it was a treat to receive Easter Bread made by my grandmother. We would only have it once a year and the wait was excruciating. Now that my grandmother has gotten older, she has stopped baking a lot of her recipes that require a lot of hand usage--her traditional Italian baking means no machines. So for the past few years, I have missed enjoying my Easter Bread.

Keep Reading...Show less
Adulting

Unlocking Lake People's Secrets: 15 Must-Knows!

There's no other place you'd rather be in the summer.

956704
Group of joyful friends sitting in a boat
Haley Harvey

The people that spend their summers at the lake are a unique group of people.

Whether you grew up going to the lake, have only recently started going, or have only been once or twice, you know it takes a certain kind of person to be a lake person. To the long-time lake people, the lake holds a special place in your heart, no matter how dirty the water may look.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Top 10 Reasons My School Rocks!

Why I Chose a Small School Over a Big University.

181486
man in black long sleeve shirt and black pants walking on white concrete pathway

I was asked so many times why I wanted to go to a small school when a big university is so much better. Don't get me wrong, I'm sure a big university is great but I absolutely love going to a small school. I know that I miss out on big sporting events and having people actually know where it is. I can't even count how many times I've been asked where it is and I know they won't know so I just say "somewhere in the middle of Wisconsin." But, I get to know most people at my school and I know my professors very well. Not to mention, being able to walk to the other side of campus in 5 minutes at a casual walking pace. I am so happy I made the decision to go to school where I did. I love my school and these are just a few reasons why.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments