There is a lot in this world that scares me: snakes, dogs that jump all over you, boys who travel in packs and drive the same truck but in different colors. But I think one of my number one fears is this: that you or someone you love will be affected by the "Staying With Your Friend Group Even Though They are Not Good Friends" epidemic. It's nothing new. I'm sure our grandparents and great grandparents, and the ancestors that came over on the Mayflower experienced it too. Check the symptoms below to see if it's time to Outgrow Your Friend Group.
1. You have FOMO...all the time
I'm talking the FOMO you get when your friends purposely don't invite you places, or worse, they seem to keep forgetting that you exist. You're worth a thought. If you're taking a walk down memory lane with the group, and don't remember being present at any of the pitstops? It might be time to reevaluate the crew.
2. You're always feeling Under the Bus 
When issues arise, do you always seem to be taking the blame? If so, newsflash! You are not Regina George, and you don't belong under the bus.
3. Their hours are 9-5
Friendship isn't always the most convenient thing in the world, but a good friend does their best to be there even when the timing isn't the best. If you can't call them outside of their regular friendship hours, you need to talk about their schedule.
4. You're a friendship booty call
If they only want your boozed up, party self, it's probably not true love...or friendship. You don't have to feel guilty about wanting someone who wants you all the time, not just when it's convenient. It might be important to talk about taking this to the next level or ending it altogether.
5. You're the last resort
You are a five star resort worth a long stay, not a dreaded stop before the final destination of loneliness.
6. You're not yourself 
If you're having trouble recognizing the face in the mirror, it might be time to look more deeply into your reflection. If your friends don't help you stay true to yourself, what are either of you gaining?
7. You're not happy
No explanation necessary.
