For the longest time, I didn’t like to refer myself as a feminist. I am ashamed to admit that. My issue was with the term, not the movement. I wish I came to this realization earlier. For a while, the word had such a negative connotation. In the midst of advocating for women’s rights, “feminism” seemed to mean that women somehow were trying to overtake men. Feminism doesn’t say, “We hate men.” That’s a ridiculous notion in itself.
In September 2014, Emma Watson gave a speech as the U.N Global Ambassador for the HeForShe campaign, speaking on behalf of gender equality. This moment at the United Nation Headquarters was the instant she earned her title as a well-known feminist. She clarified the feminism definition for the world: “For the record feminism by definition is the belief that men and women should have equal rights and opportunities. It is the theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes.” If I could quote the rest of Emma Watson’s speech, I would.
Statically speaking, only about 20 percent of Americans of identified themselves as feminists. But, when asked if men and women should be equal, 82 percent said yes. Maybe it’s the social stigma associated with the word but according to the definition, 82 percent are feminists. Emma Watson points out that it is not the word that defines us, but the idea. Are you against the gender wage gap? Do you believe we should all have the same career opportunities? Do you believe everyone is entitled to the same education? Ask yourself if you support equality, then try to say you’re not a feminist. How could someone not agree with that?
These same people that call themselves feminists advocate against sexual harassment and domestic violence. They strive for social justice in all respects. Men can be feminists too. Men can support the crazy idea that women are human, and equal ones at that. Gender equality exists for both men and women. Certain stereotypes imprison men and seem to undermine their masculinity. Particular attributes are associated with men in the same light as women. Thus, feminism applies to all types of people.
People regard breaking gender stereotypes as a deviation from the norm. A female taking on a considered male job or vice versa shouldn’t be considered abnormal. A man having a domestic role in the household shouldn’t be considered atypical in the slightest. There is no such thing as male supremacy, or at least, there shouldn’t be. Feminists aren’t looking for superiority -- we’re seeking equality. There’s a difference.
I can be a feminist and still believe in traditional values. There are many ways to express feminism and everyone needs to understand that. Feminism means equality. It’s as simple as that. This gives women and men the same opportunities, but how they live their lives are up to them. It gives you the option to live your life on your accord – it doesn’t tell you what to do.
Stop being afraid to call yourself a feminist. Like many, I chose not to identify myself with this term. Now, I am proud to call myself a feminist (as I should have a very long time ago). I am choosing to advocate for equality. I am choosing to advocate for change. Everyone should do the same.
