5 Reasons My Brother Is My Best Friend

5 Reasons My Brother Is My Best Friend

He always encourages me to better myself and strive for success.

It’s common knowledge that when two people spend a large amount of time together they are bound to become the best of friends…right?

Wrong. Sometimes they get absolutely irritated with one another and want to rip each other’s heads off. This type of relationship is called siblings.

But sometimes as a pair of sibling grows up they put aside their differences and their bickering and they become best friends. For me, it just so happens that I’ve been blessed with the best brother I could imagine. My parents have given me a built-in best friend who has been around in my life from the time I was playing with dolls and teddy bears to the days of shaping into an intellectual adult. Here’s proof of why my brother is one of my best friends.

1. He’ll travel long distances to come see me

Whether it’s a trip from Pullman to Spokane or a trip across the Pacific Ocean, my brother will always drop everything he’s doing to come and see me. Even in a non-emergency situation, he will come see me even if it’s just for a quick dinner or a night of hanging out with friends. That’s true friendship right there.

2. He makes me a better person

If you were to name every positive characteristic there is, my brother would have all of those qualities. And, rather than forcing me to become a better person, he quietly (and without me ever really noticing) sets an example for me in all that he does. The way that he treats others would make Mother Theresa proud. He makes everyone in the room feel as though they are the most important person on Earth, and it’s inspiring how he can uplift a group of people as though he is individually doing so. He always encourages me to better myself and strive for success. He’s my biggest motivator and supporter, all at the same time.

3. Sibling rivalry is nonexistent between the two of us

Sure, I may joke around that I’m the better sibling and that I’m more loved. But rather than retaliating and dishing it back, my brother agrees with me and makes it so our rivalry is nonexistent. The two of us are so similar, but at the same time we are completely different, so we never have to worry about striving for the same goals. We continuously uplift one another to achieve our goals. I have never met someone who is so selfless, encouraging and genuinely invested in my success and achievements.

4. Even when I’m not looking he’s always paying attention

Even though I tell myself that he’s a boy that doesn’t care or doesn’t pay attention, he always has listened to what I have to say; the truth is, he was always listening, even when it seemed like he wasn’t. If I complained about a problem or something that was upsetting me, he would make sure to give me an encouraging text the next day to remind me that things would be alright.

5. Together, we make a great package deal

Of course, we’re siblings first, but we’ve gotten to the point that we’re genuine friends. We care about each other’s struggles and troubles. We are one another’s biggest fans. I’ve been lucky to have him as a sibling because he’s been around for all of my milestones, and now that we’re old enough we choose to hang out with one another and be real friends.

For anyone reading this, I hope you too find a best friend out of your sibling. I hope you see your sibling(s) as the greatest gift your parents could have given you. I hope you realize that days of fighting and bickering may not ever end but rather come to a more mature nature. I hope you confide in your sibling(s) and realize that in life, your family is what is most important. And most of all, I hope you find peace and harmony in one another.

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8 Reasons Why My Dad Is the Most Important Man In My Life

Forever my number one guy.

Growing up, there's been one consistent man I can always count on, my father. In any aspect of my life, my dad has always been there, showing me unconditional love and respect every day. No matter what, I know that my dad will always be the most important man in my life for many reasons.

1. He has always been there.

Literally. From the day I was born until today, I have never not been able to count on my dad to be there for me, uplift me and be the best dad he can be.

2. He learned to adapt and suffer through girly trends to make me happy.

I'm sure when my dad was younger and pictured his future, he didn't think about the Barbie pretend pageants, dressing up as a princess, perfecting my pigtails and enduring other countless girly events. My dad never turned me down when I wanted to play a game, no matter what and was always willing to help me pick out cute outfits and do my hair before preschool.

3. He sends the cutest texts.

Random text messages since I have gotten my own cell phone have always come my way from my dad. Those randoms "I love you so much" and "I am so proud of you" never fail to make me smile, and I can always count on my dad for an adorable text message when I'm feeling down.

4. He taught me how to be brave.

When I needed to learn how to swim, he threw me in the pool. When I needed to learn how to ride a bike, he went alongside me and made sure I didn't fall too badly. When I needed to learn how to drive, he was there next to me, making sure I didn't crash.

5. He encourages me to best the best I can be.

My dad sees the best in me, no matter how much I fail. He's always there to support me and turn my failures into successes. He can sit on the phone with me for hours, talking future career stuff and listening to me lay out my future plans and goals. He wants the absolute best for me, and no is never an option, he is always willing to do whatever it takes to get me where I need to be.

6. He gets sentimental way too often, but it's cute.

Whether you're sitting down at the kitchen table, reminiscing about your childhood, or that one song comes on that your dad insists you will dance to together on your wedding day, your dad's emotions often come out in the cutest possible way, forever reminding you how loved you are.

7. He supports you, emotionally and financially.

Need to vent about a guy in your life that isn't treating you well? My dad is there. Need some extra cash to help fund spring break? He's there for that, too.

8. He shows me how I should be treated.

Yes, my dad treats me like a princess, and I don't expect every guy I meet to wait on me hand and foot, but I do expect respect, and that's exactly what my dad showed I deserve. From the way he loves, admires, and respects me, he shows me that there are guys out there who will one day come along and treat me like that. My dad always advises me to not put up with less than I deserve and assures me that the right guy will come along one day.

For these reasons and more, my dad will forever be my No. 1 man. I love you!

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When You Are The Youngest Of 6 Kids

Having five older siblings is the greatest blessing I could have ever asked for. I get best friends for life.


I am probably one of the luckiest people on the planet because I have so many brothers and sisters. I have three brothers and two sisters. I'm the youngest of the six, so I have had a pretty interesting experience growing up with a big family.

My oldest brother is ten years older than me. All of my siblings were born in the 90s and I wasn't, but I wanted to fit in with them. I had to make sure I watched the same TV shows and movies that they did so I could relate to them. I tried to play the same games that they played, such as SEGA and Nintendo. I was not very good at any of them, but I was just happy to be with my siblings.

Going to school was always interesting because I always had a teacher that one or more of my siblings already had. Every year in school from 1st grade to 12th grade, I always heard, "Oh, I had a few of your siblings." Then, for the rest of the year, my teachers would slip up every once in a while and call me one of my sisters' names. I understood, though, because all of us look alike, so I would just go along with it and act like that was my name.

With my sisters, the three of us look like triplets, even though we are years apart. I get called Jess or Jen a lot by my parents. By process of elimination, they eventually figure out my name. I'm used to it as I respond to anyone who calls me by one of my sister's names.

Being the youngest, I get to see all my brothers and sisters accomplish many things. I watch what they do and learn from it. The problem for me has always been that all of my siblings are brilliant. I have always had to live up to the standards that my siblings set. It hasn't always been easy.

It can be frustrating because anyone that knows my brothers and sisters will automatically compare me to them in terms of intelligence. For example, I took AP Statistics in high school. I knew my teacher had a few of my siblings who were very bright and did well in that class. My teacher probably thought I was an idiot because I struggled in that class.

I have to try and prove to people that I am my own person and that I am just related to really smart people.

I never needed to worry about friends at school because, at the end of the day, I always had my five best friends at home. When we were all younger, we had our own sleepovers and parties, and we played games all the time.

Whenever I needed help with homework, I had my own free tutors at home who were willing to help me understand algebra and biology. Even in college, I still go to them when I need help with an assignment.

They took care of me when I was younger whenever my parents were working. I had my other five parents who were ready to take care of me. They still take care of me today.

Now that I am an adult, I have had to start doing things for myself. It's kind of weird.

I always had everyone else do everything for me or with me. If I needed to go somewhere, they were my chauffeurs. If we went out to eat somewhere, they paid, but now I can drive myself around and pay for things with my own money.

At the end of the day, I have five best friends for life. For me, that is all I need.

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