Sometimes in life, you just need to take a step back from everything. This may be something you have heard before, but if you're anything like me, you might not have actually done it.
This is where I urge you to actually do so.
As I am writing this, it is "dead week" at school. But, my "dead week" is anything but dead. In fact, it might be the busiest week I have had all semester. I have been swamped with projects and preparing for my finals, and I know I am not the only one.
So I decided to take a step back and write this article. And as I am writing this, I have come to realize a few things.
It is okay to spend more time on yourself than with your friends or helping your friends out. If it's for your well-being, your friends will understand. Everyone will understand. It is okay, even recommended might I add, to take some time to get your thoughts under control and calm yourself down.
We are in that stage of our lives when we are dawdling around in school, yet we are being teased with the responsibilities that come with adulthood. Some of us have internships. Some of us have jobs. Some of us are swamped with schoolwork. Some of us are studying for the next step of our education. Some of us are out there trying to find a job to give them some sort of security for that time that inevitably comes after receiving our diplomas.
This can take a lot out of a person. I know this because it has been taking a lot out of me. It has been taking a lot out of my friends, who are all trying to solidify their plans for the summer. Balancing school, work, and plans for the future is not meant to be an easy task. Yet, it is the task that a lot of us face on a daily basis.
Take time for yourself outside of the scope of school and work. Even if you do not want to spend time with friends, I encourage you to take a step back. Binge-watch Netflix. Buy for yourself that one item that has been on your wish list for several months. Take a walk. Do anything that can help set your mind at peace, because we all know that we are going to need that sanity to push through to graduation and beyond.
So when you are preparing to study for finals, hoping for that grade that will allow you to pass your classes without your conscience bugging you, remember that it is okay to take a break, to get yourself calm and mentally prepared for the stress that inevitably will follow. Remember that you are your own number one priority, and treat yourself as such.
Breathe in, breathe out. Life won't take you down.





















