Having A Supportive Boyfriend Helped Me Achieve Success In College
Start writing a post
Relationships

Having A Supportive Boyfriend Helped Me Achieve Success In College

College relationships aren't for everyone, but I'm beyond grateful for mine.

242
Having A Supportive Boyfriend Helped Me Achieve Success In College
TheVirtualDenise

Some people view being tied down in college as a bad thing. However, from my personal experience, it has been the polar opposite.

During my freshman year, I became engulfed in the freshman culture of going out every night and not breaking a sweat if I missed a class or two the next morning. As a result, I did terribly my first semester. After getting good grades throughout my entire academic career leading up to college, I received my first D in a class.

Everything changed when I met Marc, my current boyfriend of two and a half years. Besides my first semester, we've been dating throughout my entire collegiate career. Although some view a relationship as a hindrance to one's college experience, I believe otherwise.

In fact, if I hadn't met Marc, I'm not sure if I would have accomplished any of the things I have throughout these past two and a half years. From the moment we began dating, we have both proved to ourselves that we were capable of success. We have pushed each other again and again to go out of our comfort zones and set goals that we would have never imagined before.

We've spent countless nights studying and motivating each other to never give up, even when times are hard and everything seems to be out of reach. We've lifted each other up after failures and celebrated the milestones we've both hit along the way.

The most important thing Marc has taught me is to have confidence in myself. I've always been insecure when it comes to my ability to excel in journalism, which is my field of study. However, by watching Marc chase his dreams of becoming a successful computer scientist and not letting anything get in his way, I've learned to do the same for myself. He is always there to give me words of encouragement in moments of doubt and to lead by example, even if he doesn't know it.

We have both accomplished so much in the past year, and it is all because of the support system we have within each other. Marc landed a great job as a software engineer in Fort Lauderdale and graduates in a few days while I landed two journalism internships and was promoted to Editor-in-Chief of Odyssey at UCF.

Sometimes I think about what I would be doing if I had never met him, and I'm glad I'll never have to face that reality. I honestly don't know if I would still be studying journalism at all if it weren't for him, let alone be an Editor-in-Chief of a huge publication.

I know that relationships aren't for everyone, especially in college. But for me, my relationship led me to success, and I'm excited to see what else we will both achieve moving forward - hand in hand.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Being Invisible The Best Super Power

The best superpower ever? Being invisible of course. Imagine just being able to go from seen to unseen on a dime. Who wouldn't want to have the opportunity to be invisible? Superman and Batman have nothing on being invisible with their superhero abilities. Here are some things that you could do while being invisible, because being invisible can benefit your social life too.

Keep Reading...Show less
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

92722
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less
a man and a woman sitting on the beach in front of the sunset

Whether you met your new love interest online, through mutual friends, or another way entirely, you'll definitely want to know what you're getting into. I mean, really, what's the point in entering a relationship with someone if you don't know whether or not you're compatible on a very basic level?

Consider these 21 questions to ask in the talking stage when getting to know that new guy or girl you just started talking to:

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments