I hope you know she loves you. A lot.

Do you think it gains you more respect? Because "you can keep your woman in her place."

You say you're only "joking" or "kidding." Those words are like stepping on tiny shards of glass over and over; each time digging deeper, piercing through more layers. Her constantly reminding herself of her worth and that its "how you show your affection." That she should be thankful that you speak to her. That you show her attention.

You call her stupid and dumb. She may not be the top her class, but she is far from.

She isn't your doormat. She isn't always going to be there. You're rude and ignorant. You're immature. You don't value what you have. You laugh at her and not with her. She isn't the joke, you are.

You mean so much to that dumb girl. You're her world and she's your punch line.

Coming from an outsider looking in, it's disgusting. You have no consideration for her feelings. Her excuse, "you only act like that when you're with your friends; you're different when you aren't with them."

You shouldn't be different! You shouldn't be sweeter or nicer. You should be you. Whether that's the inconsiderate jerk or the sweet boy she loves and looks forward to seeing.

You should celebrate her. Make her feel wanted, loved. You are suppose to be her support, her soulmate. Stop calling her names that make bruises and burns. Start calling her names that flush her face in embarrassment; like beautiful, love.

She isn't any less than you. In fact she is more. She's more for seeing past all of your crap, for tolerating you. She's stronger and "more of a man" than you ever will be!

Stop putting down your girlfriend. It's not funny. It's not helping. It's pathetic because she deserves so much more.

And to the girlfriend being put down by her boyfriend. You are intelligent and deserve the world. Don't ever take that from anyone, let alone from someone who "loves" you