7 Bible Verses To Get Me Centered Again

7 Bible Verses To Get Me Centered Again

Because sometimes the world is just too much for me.

Lately, I have been stressed, overwhelmed and wanting nothing to do with the world around me. I try to show a happy face and get through the day but it is not enough. I will be honest, I am a Christian, but I could do more. Some days are harder than others for me and I forget my Lord. As I am approaching these past couple of weeks for midterms, projects and assignments, I would lay on my bed and look up at the fairy lights hanging over and think. It must get better, I cannot feel this empty and stressed. I have not picked up my Bible in a while so when I walked over to my desk and pulled it out, I was sad because I could not remember the last time I opened it.

I skimmed through some pages and remembered that my mom used to read some scriptures to me and luckily those were tagged in my copy so I read them. A lot were comforting, but there were some that just hit right home on how I felt and how I needed to be strong. Some quotes that stood out to me were:

John 14:27

Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.

I stress all the time, and with that it can really put a toll on my heart. Knowing that God can give me peace rather than something that the world can give really put some thought bubbles in my mind.

Proverbs 16:13

Commit to the LORD whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.

I always thought this way, but seeing it in writing made me feel more secure. Since I was a little girl, I believed that committing to Him and trusting him would help me follow the path that I am supposed to follow. Even if at that moment I do not think that is the path I should be taking. I think of the saying, “Everything happens for a reason.”

Luke 21:19

Stand firm, and you will win life.

I just thought this was a strong verse that I may or may not make a poster of it and hang it in my room later on. Confidence is something that can bring reassurance to us. I, myself, struggle with finding confidence or courage in myself and I tend to get timid. But you cannot win in life, or better yet your life unless you plant your ground.

Psalm 118:6

The LORD is with me; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me?

This one made me say “retweet” out loud in my room. Everyone and everything on this Earth is temporary. That is just fact. So when I come across a situation when I feel doubtful of myself or if I feel like someone will do something bad to me or judge me, I have to remember that the Almighty God has me and will not give me anything he knows I cannot truly handle. Even if at that time, I feel like I cannot.

Romans 8:6

The mind governed by the flesh is death, but the mind governed by the Spirit is life and peace.

I feel like, especially in Today’s time, we are materialistic. We are obsessed with getting things. We focus so much on what is on our phones, or what is the latest clothes or the fastest car that it clutters our minds. Whenever I “renew” myself by talking to Christ, I feel better, I really do; and I am not saying if you do not believe in God that your a bad person or anything. In honesty, I think everyone should just believe in something. Something that can be like a North Star for your life and point us in the right direction.

Luke 21:34

Be careful, or your hearts will be weighed down with carousing, drunkenness and the anxieties of life, and that day will close on you suddenly like a trap.

Unfortunately, this is me almost on the daily. My anxiety controls my life. I hate to admit it, but it does. Whether I am in classrooms, in movie theatres, even talking to my closest friends. I let so much into my life and my spirit that it almost does not know what to do with it, which makes me fizz out by the end of the day.

Psalm 16:8

I keep my eyes always on the LORD. With him at my right hand, I will not be shaken.

The Lord is my best friend. Sadly, I have neglected Him time and time again. My life feels more centered when I pay attention to Him and I feel like my life is falling all around me when I know He is there for me. My world will not collapse, no matter how crappy it may seem and boy does it get crappy some days.

I guess the point of it all is, it took me all this stress, all my late night crying and panic attacks to say out loud, “trust." I have been so busy with everything and everyone around me, I stopped breathing, I stopped going to my center and the world started falling apart around me. Whether you believe in God or not, I hope you were able to take something out of this pile of cluttered thoughts that I dumped on the world. I think the world needs to believe in something more and maybe it will help us understand better. *cue throwing fairy dust in the night sky*
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Just For Clarification, It Is Possible To Be BOTH A Christian Woman And A Feminist

A clarification of God's intention for men, women, and their value.


I read an article recently about a young Christian woman who said that she didn't believe that God intended women to be equals. Here was the Title, "I'm A Christian Girl, And I'm Not A Feminist, Because God Did Not Intend For Women To Be Equals."

I read the article, mostly because the title was a little unsettling, and understood where she was coming from. It held a great intention and standing in Scripture coupled with a passionate affection for Jesus, which I adore. However, the language and word choice could be used to reinforce the notion that Christians and God view women as lesser than men.

And so, I wanted to clarify a few things to ensure clarity. The idea that God views women as less valuable than men is truly and wholeheartedly not true. There is so much significance, value, intention, meaning, and need for women. And men, equally are as vital, so valuable, full of meaning, and so uniformly needed. And to put both of them on a scale to weigh out our equality in significance and value almost feels... completely unnecessary and out of place. Both men and women hold an equal degree of worth as persons, as they have both been made in God's image and are heirs together of eternal life.

So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them. Genesis 1: 27
There is neither Jew nor Greek, thee is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. Galatians 3:38

We cannot reproduce one without the other. We depend on each other for the very carrying on of our beings. And we depend on each other in a lot of other contexts too.

I'd like to open this up to a little bit more of a dialogue because I think there's some disconnect between how feminism and equality are understood and defined as in today's context. So just to be clear on exactly what we're talking about, here are some definitions from dictionary.com of the key terms that this topic revolves around:

The definition of equal: being the same in quantity, size, degree, or value.

The definition of equality: the state of being equal, especially in status, rights, and opportunities.

The definition of feminism: the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes.

The definition of a feminist: A person who supports feminism.

Just a quick disclaimer, people have adopted various definitions of these terms in today's culture. For my purposes, I will be referring to the definitions listed above.

So, essentially a feminist is someone who supports the state of equality in status, rights, and opportunities relative to men. Under that definition I, a Christian woman, would define myself as a feminist. In a general view, I support and encourage the state of being provided the same opportunities, rights, and status as a woman, and essentially as a human being.

With that being said, however, I also believe that men and women are different, and have been given roles within the family setting to fit those differences. Here is one passage that describes a woman's particular role in a marriage.

"Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands." Ephesians 5: 22-24

I think the word submit immediately scares us as women. It scares me a bit, to be 100% honest. But after being married and realizing that leadership is so important, and us working as a team together is hugely vital to our marriage, the roots of this message are being realized and understood further in my own life and as a wife.

The type of submission described here is not the obedience children owe to their parents. Nor is it stating that all women should submit to all men. This submission is in a specific marital context for the work of a harmonious and healthy marriage. It goes on to command the husband to love his wife as Christ loved the Church. The husband is to be a leader that loves, cherishes, listens to, and protects his wife. We have both been given a responsibility and a role to ensure that our marriage is working toward one common goal. That we are on the same page because ultimately we are on the same team.

So although men have been granted a role of leadership within a marriage, this should in no means imply that we are not equal to them. Equal in quantity, quality, degree, or value. There are millions of angles and coatings to this subject, so please forgive me for the gaps that I haven't addressed in this small fragment of writing.

I feel like there are millions of layers to how God sees us as people, too. He has created us, putting pieces of Himself of infinite worth and value into our the heart of hearts knitted in each of us, both male and female.

I hope you know that we are valuable.

You are valuable.

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Mission Trips Taught Me More About Life Than School Ever Will

The people I've met and things I've seen have impacted me for the better.


In the summer between fifth and sixth grade, I went on my first mission trip with my youth group. We went to Philadelphia for a week to serve in various places and spread God's love to those in the city (shoutout to all my M-Fuge peeps).

NO, we did not "force" our religion on those we talked to. But we did bring up God and church if they asked and through various activities we may have done. I don't quite remember the feelings I had during that initial week, but I remember leaving extremely happy and ready to tell more people about God.

Since that trip, I have gone to multiple other cities with my youth group every year and established so many relationships with those I met. In fact, there are still a few people I met from other churches during my trips with whom I still am friends on Facebook and Instagram.

Besides meeting people who also helped those in the community, I also met a handful of people who completely changed my outlook on life. There were some years I would go into the week not wanting to be there or upset about a tiny situation at home. Then during the week, God would work His magic and place the right person in my life to help me realize that those issues are small in comparison to what someone else is dealing with.

Not only would God help me with that issue of mine, but He would allow our group to work and establish faith in those we encountered.

We have had the opportunities to work in food banks, homeless shelters, adult daycares, and parks in what some people may consider the "sketchy" sides of town. No matter where we were, we all were able to experience how others live their lives.

There are some days when we get so caught up in our own drama, we forget how little these problems seem in comparison to others. A minor inconvenience to you may seem like a miracle for others. Simple little acts, like playing bingo with seniors, can turn someone's whole day around.

The older people we worked with played bingo with a passion!

In the summer between my junior and senior year of high school, my youth group returned to Philadelphia for another mission trip. I met these twin boys, about 11 years old, at a park we were working at. I learned on our first day there that these boys rarely were fed dinner, and lunch may have been the only time they would eat during the day. An adult who worked at the park later told me that the twins are always sent out of their house at late hours for reasons they did not know.

But despite the situation these boys were in, they came to hang out with us every day with the most infectious smiles on their faces.

I cannot confirm or deny this, but by the end of the week, the two of them may have been fighting with each other over who could "marry" me before I left. These boys established a sense of positivity in my life and impacted me on so many levels. I will never forget them.

It is so extremely important for someone to go out and do missions at least once in their life.

Not only do you spread love and happiness, but you also learn a lot about the world. There is so much you can learn in a span of one week that you can never learn in your 12 years of school. The people you interact with may spark something within to help you appreciate what you have. You may find out that you love doing mission work because of the change you can see in others throughout your time there.

When I have kids, I know I will send them on mission trips so they can learn about other parts of the country, other lifestyles, and how to spread love and happiness wherever they may go.

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