Don't change for anybody. You are meant to be who you were born to be. I myself have been conflicted on who I actually am these past few months. A lot has happened around me that has helped me grow into who I am. If you don't think you're the best that you can be, then you need to think about who you are hanging around, because those are the people who should be helping you be great. 16 is the age where most teens have internal conflict. There are a lot of pressures and stressful situations you are put in that you don't understand, and you don't think anyone else understands it either. The most stressful part of being a teen is, well, being a teen. You don't know who you are yet, because you aren't a child or an adult, so you're in a weird position. Everyone has been there or is going to get there, and it's hard for everyone.
Don't beat yourself up about the little things. Life should be fine if you are around the right people and have the right resources around you.
