Going from being in a relationship to being single is not always the easiest transition. At first, it can be hard to cope with and getting out of bed becomes an even more difficult task. But soon enough, it gets better and you begin to love yourself more than you ever had before. No one teaches us what it means to live a single, happy life quite like the Bachelorette, Joelle Fletcher. The following GIFs featuring Jojo explain the stages of becoming single:

At first, it’s a disaster. You have to accustom yourself to being by yourself. It’s not easy, and it looks a little something like this:

You find yourself needing some serious girl time and a bottle of wine:

But now that you’re single, you really have to start working on that body.

You’ll start talking to guys again, and it’ll feel weird initially. But soon enough you’ll be like:

However, you don’t let all these boys blind you from maintaining your single girl lifestyle.

Eventually, you’ll start going on dates with new guys. But the second they bring up any talk of feelings, you’ll probably be like:

"I'm more of a relationship guy."

Honestly, you’ll start running away from commitment like:

But once you accept the idea of being single, and realize it’s not so bad after all, you will adopt a newfound happiness. You’re not alone, you simply have yourself to focus on now, and it is truly awesome.