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How To Spot A Fuckboy From A mile Away

Fuckboys: Who are they? And why should women stay away?

Chloe Ruschel

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As Urban Dictionary puts it, "A fuckboy is a guy who tried to get with everyone, in short terms, "a player". A fuckboy is someone who will lie to a girl to get them to sleep with him or to send pics. They think they are the shit when they aren't. A guy who will only date a girl for their body. A total ass. A guy that will make a girl cry and laugh, and a guy who lies when they said I love you.' Thanks, Urban Dictionary for such an accurate definition!

Anyways, after knowing some of the signs, it is really easy to identify a fuckboy. Here are some signs on how to realize if a guy is a fuckboy or not:

1. They have no remorse when it comes to hurting a girl's feelings.

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This one is definitely a no brainer. However, when you're the one being played, it's hard to realize that a fuckboy doesn't actually mean it when he says, "I love you".

2. They drop you and pick you whenever they please.

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Most of the time they'll just stop talking to you and leave you wondering what you did wrong for a person to do that to you. So you're left feeling like crap until they magically appear back in your DM's a week later. Boy, bye.

3. They always lead on more than one girl at a time.

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My favorite line from a fuckboy would definitely be, "I promise you're the only one I'm talking to. They're just friends, I swear."

4. They're cheaters!

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If they're flirting with you, WHILE they have a girlfriend, they're going to do the same to you hun. Just do yourself a favor and move on.

5. They enjoy having you chase them.

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Girls, DO NOT EVER CHASE AFTER SOMEONE. What's the point of chasing after someone? If they want to be with you, they will be.

6. They're always changing their minds.

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That's why they're labeled as a "fuckboy", because they can never decide on one girl.

7. They know how to get into your head.

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They know how to push all of your mushy buttons to make you fall for them. DO NOT FALL FOR IT! Stick your ground, and don't fall so easily for trash men.

So, in the end, do not ever date a fuckboy. It doesn't make you any wiser when it comes to future relationships. It doesn't help you narrow down what you want in future relationships because you still went for a guy who treated you like sh*t. If anything, it crushes your hopes in finding real love. When dating a fuckboy, he will ruin your thoughts of a good guy ever existing. Encountering these kind of men is exhausting for the soul. Don't let some crappy guy turn you into a cynic and make you think that good guys no longer exist, be better than that.

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Fuckboys: Who are they? And why should women stay away?

1. They have no remorse when it comes to hurting a girl's feelings.

2. They drop you and pick you whenever they please.

3. They always lead on more than one girl at a time.

4. They're cheaters!

5. They enjoy having you chase them.

6. They're always changing their minds.

7. They know how to get into your head.

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