Are You PC Bro?

Are You PC Bro?

Because I am not.

What has society become? It seems as if we have become too sensitive and easily offended. Recently, everyone has become so politically correct that it has begun to affect us in a negative way. People can no longer freely joke around without somebody feeling offended about what they say. The world isn't a walk in the park. Your feelings are going to be hurt and that's that. "PC," (politically correct), has become the motto and it's making us weaker.

According to social media, everyone is a "bigot" for stating their own opinions. We live in a society where we must walk on egg shells in fear of being censored because we are not "politically correct." Guess what? The world itself is not politically correct. There's terrorism that haunts our streets and our minds. Politicians can't speak freely in fear that some people will say that they're not acting politically correct. Quite frankly, who cares if we are politically correct or not? Nobody can take a joke anymore. This isn't what society is supposed to be. Equality is the key to having a successful society. However, we take it overboard. We don't operate as we used to. If you take a look around, you'd see that the world is changing and people are changing too. People have began to limit their words in fear of being banned because they hurt somebody else's feelings.

Obviously, I'm not saying it's OK to deliberately offend somebody in a cruel way. But, what I'm saying is that people need to lighten up and learn to take a joke. You can no longer go on Facebook without seeing somebody complain that their feelings are hurt because of what is being shared. Furthermore, once we enter the working world, nobody is going to care if our feelings are hurt. We need to stop being so sensitive to everything that is said. The reality is that the world isn't pretty all of the time and our words aren't either. Sometimes, the things that need to be said are the furthest thing away from politically correct statements. When will we wake up and see that this is making us weaker?

As "South Park" has stated, "the world isn't one big liberal arts college campus the reality is just the opposite." Everyday, I wake up and wonder what people are going to be offended by. Social justice warriors are all over social media making this problem much worse. The reality is that they don't care about who is being offended. All they want is people to like and share what they say. When did it become bad to make a joke? Around the same time society began to dig to deeper into what is being said. Our words are going to offend somebody and that is okay. We don't live in a perfect world, so we must stop pretending that we do. We can not operate in fear of who we are going to hurt with our words.

Society has began to censor itself to a point where everyone is portraying a fake persona. So, next time you are pondering stating your opinion on things, remember that your opinion is valid and it doesn't matter if it is PC or not. It doesn't matter if somebody is going to be offended. Equality is great, and so is freedom of speech. People are not bigots for stating their own opinions. It does not make you racist to make a joke based on stereotypes. This is all harmless but we make it harmful by going around and making sure everyone and everything is politically correct. Our words matter and it doesn't matter who gets offended. If something needs to be said then it should be said. I hope we all start this New Year off with this in mind. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! Wait, did I just offend somebody by saying Merry Christmas?... I couldn't care less.

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8 Reasons Why My Dad Is the Most Important Man In My Life

Forever my number one guy.

Growing up, there's been one consistent man I can always count on, my father. In any aspect of my life, my dad has always been there, showing me unconditional love and respect every day. No matter what, I know that my dad will always be the most important man in my life for many reasons.

1. He has always been there.

Literally. From the day I was born until today, I have never not been able to count on my dad to be there for me, uplift me and be the best dad he can be.

2. He learned to adapt and suffer through girly trends to make me happy.

I'm sure when my dad was younger and pictured his future, he didn't think about the Barbie pretend pageants, dressing up as a princess, perfecting my pigtails and enduring other countless girly events. My dad never turned me down when I wanted to play a game, no matter what and was always willing to help me pick out cute outfits and do my hair before preschool.

3. He sends the cutest texts.

Random text messages since I have gotten my own cell phone have always come my way from my dad. Those randoms "I love you so much" and "I am so proud of you" never fail to make me smile, and I can always count on my dad for an adorable text message when I'm feeling down.

4. He taught me how to be brave.

When I needed to learn how to swim, he threw me in the pool. When I needed to learn how to ride a bike, he went alongside me and made sure I didn't fall too badly. When I needed to learn how to drive, he was there next to me, making sure I didn't crash.

5. He encourages me to best the best I can be.

My dad sees the best in me, no matter how much I fail. He's always there to support me and turn my failures into successes. He can sit on the phone with me for hours, talking future career stuff and listening to me lay out my future plans and goals. He wants the absolute best for me, and no is never an option, he is always willing to do whatever it takes to get me where I need to be.

6. He gets sentimental way too often, but it's cute.

Whether you're sitting down at the kitchen table, reminiscing about your childhood, or that one song comes on that your dad insists you will dance to together on your wedding day, your dad's emotions often come out in the cutest possible way, forever reminding you how loved you are.

7. He supports you, emotionally and financially.

Need to vent about a guy in your life that isn't treating you well? My dad is there. Need some extra cash to help fund spring break? He's there for that, too.

8. He shows me how I should be treated.

Yes, my dad treats me like a princess, and I don't expect every guy I meet to wait on me hand and foot, but I do expect respect, and that's exactly what my dad showed I deserve. From the way he loves, admires, and respects me, he shows me that there are guys out there who will one day come along and treat me like that. My dad always advises me to not put up with less than I deserve and assures me that the right guy will come along one day.

For these reasons and more, my dad will forever be my No. 1 man. I love you!

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Why The Idea Of 'No Politics At The Dinner Table' Takes Place And Why We Should Avoid It

When did having a dialogue become so rare?


Why has the art of civilized debate and conversation become unheard of in daily life? Why is it considered impolite to talk politics with coworkers and friends? Expressing ideas and discussing different opinions should not be looked down upon.

I have a few ideas as to why this is our current societal norm.

1. Politics is personal.

Your politics can reveal a lot about who you are. Expressing these (sometimes controversial) opinions may put you in a vulnerable position. It is possible for people to draw unfair conclusions from one viewpoint you hold. This fosters a fear of judgment when it comes to our political beliefs.

Regardless of where you lie on the spectrum of political belief, there is a world of assumption that goes along with any opinion. People have a growing concern that others won't hear them out based on one belief.

As if a single opinion could tell you all that you should know about someone. Do your political opinions reflect who you are as a person? Does it reflect your hobbies? Your past?

The question becomes "are your politics indicative enough of who you are as a person to warrant a complete judgment?"

Personally, I do not think you would even scratch the surface of who I am just from knowing my political identification.

2. People are impolite.

The politics themselves are not impolite. But many people who wield passionate, political opinion act impolite and rude when it comes to those who disagree.

The avoidance of this topic among friends, family, acquaintances and just in general, is out of a desire to 'keep the peace'. Many people have friends who disagree with them and even family who disagree with them. We justify our silence out of a desire to avoid unpleasant situations.

I will offer this: It might even be better to argue with the ones you love and care about, because they already know who you are aside from your politics, and they love you unconditionally (or at least I would hope).

We should be having these unpleasant conversations. And you know what? They don't even need to be unpleasant! Shouldn't we be capable of debating in a civilized manner? Can't we find common ground?

I attribute the loss of political conversation in daily life to these factors. 'Keeping the peace' isn't an excuse. We should be discussing our opinions constantly and we should be discussing them with those who think differently.

Instead of discouraging political conversation, we should be encouraging kindness and understanding. That's how we will avoid the unpleasantness that these conversations sometimes bring.

By avoiding them altogether, we are doing our youth a disservice because they are not being exposed to government, law, and politics, and they are not learning to deal with people and ideas that they don't agree with.

Next Thanksgiving, talk politics at the table.

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