An Open Letter to the New Greek Member, from a Graduating Senior
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An Open Letter to the New Greek Member, from a Graduating Senior

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An Open Letter to the New Greek Member, from a Graduating Senior
Alpha Tau Omega - Alpha Pi Chapter

Dear [insert name here],

First and foremost, congratulations on finally finding your Greek homes on campus (especially to the sixteen new members of the Alpha Pi chapter of Alpha Tau Omega)! Coming from someone who went through recruitment both as a recruit and as a brother of an organization, I know not only how stressful it can be but also what a time commitment it is, so the recognition of your hard work to this point is definitely warranted. Soak it up. Live in this moment.

But for me, this time around, it feels so much differently. My time seeking individuals out who embody the ideals we hold near and dear to our hearts is over. My time organizing and preparing and attending recruitment events is over. My time needing to find the time to do all of this is over. My time in general is nearing its end.

As much as this may seem like I'm bragging or like I'm unappreciative of what these long weeks have taught me, that isn't the case at all. But, instead, now I can finally sit back and look at the bigger picture without the impending start of the next recruitment season around the corner. And let me tell you, I'm truly enjoying the view.

I'm sure I can speak on behalf of the rest of the graduating seniors in Greek organizations at Washington & Jefferson College (and for that matter, around the country) when I say I'm truly proud to have been a member in my time here, and while I'm going to be sad to leave, I can leave content, knowing the future of Greek Life is bright.

But, just because I'm praising this hypothetical future doesn't mean this future is guaranteed. You new members need to do the work I know all of you are capable of doing to ensure this bright future will happen.

Continue to push the boundaries of what you are capable of doing. Volunteer more time. Raise more money. Make an impact both on your college campus and in the community around you. And, remember to cherish the brotherhoods and sisterhoods that you call your own.

In the intensity of the moment, in trying to break the negative stereotypes that plague Greek communities around the country, in all of your studies and extracurriculars and stressful moments, you can lose sight of what these people that "you pay to be friends with" can do for you. They're not just here for your time in college. They're not just here to make sure you stay in line. They're not your friends solely because you pay to be a brother/sister of your respective organization. These people are meant to be a support system. They're meant to be a shoulder to lean on. They're meant to be friends for life. Don't forget that. Don't take it for granted. Don't leave regretting not having spent enough time with those who recruited you and believed in you and loved you and respected you.

Sincerely,

A Senior Who Wishes He Had More Time

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