When you first get into a relationship things are just fine and dandy. You go on dates and hang out all the time. You talk but you don't talk as extensively yet, you keep it to a minimum. You talk about the weather, how your day was, what you are eating, and what you guys will do this weekend. But as the relationship grows and the longer you are together you start to get personal and talk about different stuff.

Like the girl that constantly hits on your boyfriend.

So to all the girls out there that hit on men that are taken: you actually look stupid. I don't care if he is good looking or has a nice personality. He is taken and off limits and that's a boundary you should not cross. Maybe in the beginning you don't know that he is taken but once he mentions he has a girlfriend you should just back off. Stop being so persistent in talking to him. He doesn't want you! He has a girlfriend and that's that.

He still has yet to feed into your stupidity, so why do you try so hard? Buying him food he likes and asking him to go out to lunch get old. And the more he tells you the more he will get irritated that you will not leave him alone and then he won't even acknowledge your existence.

And after he tells his girlfriend she's going to get mad and she's going to hate you. Hate you for hitting on her boyfriend and for trying so hard to get with him. But at the end of the day she is confident in her relationship and knows he won't cheat. So do not think for one second that she does not trust him because she does.

But please do not mistaken it for jealousy because trust me we are not jealous. We are just territorial of what is ours. That is all!

And to all the girls dealing with this problem, just be happy your boyfriend tells you what is going on and that another girl hit on him. It shows that he is faithful and will open up to you about anything. It shows that he would want you to do the same if a guy hit on you or was so persistent about it; even though you are in a relationship.

And when this is all said and done you will always be the girl that goes after men that are taken because you will always want what other people have.You are the jealous one. You will never be the girl with the nice boyfriend because of how you portray yourself and how other portray you.

But in all honesty you keep the men out there occupied who do not know how to treat a girl.

And the faithful men will stay in the relationships that they are in because that just it; they are faithful!

So sorry, he is taken and you cannot have him!