Here’s the dilemma, you say you're over him and you're fine with everything that went down, its all good, and then you see his new posts about a new girl and suddenly you find yourself being upset about it…but for what? Or he's far away and whether what happened was recent or not you know you need to let go to be okay again. Or you just need to let him go.

You find yourself wondering whats so different about her and still wondering what went wrong between you two. You find yourself texting your friends about it and they all tell you the same thing, “you’ll find someone new I swear!!” or “you deserve better” and you know both of those things.

You find yourself still wondering sometimes just what went wrong and you can’t ask the questions you want to know about.

So why can’t you let go?

Stop looking at his Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, or whatever else there is. You aren't going to find any of the answers there and you aren't going to like what you may find.

Stop texting him. Just don't even think about it. It wont end well for you, you'll be left wondering even more than what you were before.

To you, the girl who cant let him go and is reading this hoping that maybe this will strike a chord in you and tell you something you don't already know

I know you can, trust me. You already know how much better you are without him so let your mind really believe that you are so much better without him. You deserve the world and more and the boy who broke your heart doesn't realize what he lost in his life.

I promise things will be okay.

You’ll find someone who will make you happy like you didn't think would be possible again.