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An Open Letter To The Girl Who Hates Me

I'm sorry that you feel this way and here's what I have to say about it.

Jodi Buis
Jan 18, 2016
Indiana State University
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An Open Letter To The Girl Who Hates Me
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Dear girl who hates me,

First off, I want to say I'm sorry you feel this way. Personally, I think I am a nice, sweet, caring and fun-loving person, and I find it unfortunate you haven't appreciated that side of me. I also find it unfortunate, due to the fact you used to be one of my best friends - a person who I counted on for anything and everything and could share my experiences with, however, that is no longer the person you are.

Secondly, I would just like to say I am no longer going to let you get satisfaction out of going out of your way to make me upset or put me down. You may believe I am a "bad person" and are "ashamed" of me, but quite frankly, I don't give a shit. I (as many others have also told me) think I am a kick-ass person and have a heart of gold. I only treat people the same way as I am treated, and sadly for you, you haven't treated me so kindly.

Thirdly, I would like to say I am sorry there is no winning with you. You may think I have ruined all of the "second chances" I have been given, but in retrospect, it is I who has tried time after time to mend the broken frame that the picture of our friendship is in. I wish more than anything there was a way for us to reveal our white flags and put the past in the past, but...I don't think you are capable of looking past your faults and thinking that maybe, just maybe once, you are the one at fault rather than constantly blaming it on me and me being such a bad person.

Lastly, I would like to say that I am sorry. Sorry for not being the person you want me to conform into being. For holding you accountable whenever you do something wrong. I am sorry that such a great friendship fell through the cracks because two people had opposite view points of life at the time. I am sorry you may feel threatened, or dare I say jealous, so your only form of coping with such issues is to make me feel like a lesser human and not show me the same respect I've attempted to show you again and again despite anything. I am sorry you dislike me so much, but I will not be sorry for who I am, because although you may hate me, I LOVE me - and nothing you do or say will ever change that.

Sincerely,

The girl who doesn't hate you, but hates what you've become (and is done trying).

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