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An Open Letter To The Girl He Cheated On Me With

I wanted to simply say, thank you.

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An Open Letter To The Girl He Cheated On Me With

I did often blame myself. I often asked myself, why? To the girl who exploited our friendship, and only thought of her happiness first. All I have to say to you, is a simple thank you.

We used to be "best friends", but in reality you were never my friend. You were only after one thing. I would say you won, but there was no prize to win. I could even say you two deserve each other.

If you wouldn't of come between us, I would be bound for a future full of misery, pain, and lies. So, again thank you for that. Thanks for taking my biggest failure and opening a whole brand new path for me. I really don't believe I would be as happy as I am now in the position I was in for the longest time. Also, thank you for reminding me of my self-worth. I deserve so much more than the constant heartache, lies, and betrayal. I needed a good reason to wash my hands of the situation, to start all over again with a clean slate.

Thank you again, for the faint reminder that I should've listened to my family. The moment they laid eyes on you. Nothing but trouble. Parents and grandparents seem to have a fifth sense of sensing trouble before we do. With the on going heart ache I experienced thank you for helping break me down enough that all I had to depend on was God. He turned all the despair, sadness, and hate into pure love.

You may ask, if I hate you, The answer would be, no. Absolutely not. You seriously did me a favor when you pursued something that wasn't yours in the first place. You didn't even know you were doing me a favor at the time. I pray you have a wonderful and prosperous life. Thank you for teaching me how to stand on my own two feet again.

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