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An Open Letter To My Next Love

I promise I will never stop trying.

Marissa Bramble

Jul 05, 2016

Defiance College

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I know I am only 20 years old, but I am looking for something real, something true. I don't plan on wasting my time. I'm so sick of the "talking" phase that leads to nowhere.

To my next love,

You should know that I do not love easily. In fact, I have only been in love with someone once. I really don't understand those who are my age who have been in love more than 2 times already. It just does not make sense to me. Knowing that I do not love easily, please do not take that lightly. Be gentle with my heart, I do not give it away easily.

You should know that I promise to love you with every fiber of my body. I will love you to the very core of my being. My love for you will be able to move mountains. I know that may seem like a lot, but I have always wanted to be loved with a love that could light every light bulb in the world at once. Because I want this kind of love, I will give it to you, however I will not demand it in return. Although I am young I understand that you are only able to give me as much love as you can, not as much as I want.

Even though I promise to love you, know that I refuse to change certain things about myself. Love can change you for the better, but it can also change you for the worse. Even though I will love you with all that I have know that I will not give up who I am in the process.

Love doesn't end, but relationships do. If there ever comes a day that ours does I do not want to be left with just a sliver of who I am. I want to be me. I NEED to be me. If you leave I will only have myself to pick up the pieces again. That is extremely difficult to do when you only have a hand and a bum leg. Likewise, I do not expect you, nor do I want you to lose yourself in the process of loving me. I've had to pick up my pieces before with not much to start with. I would hate to see you do the same.

To the next guy that loves me, I hope you are very patient. I may be very wise beyond my years, but I am still young. I still act childish, to be honest I still eat cookies for dinner on occasion. More than that, I do not let people in easily. I can count on one hand the amount of people I have let in and gotten close enough to, that they could explore the deep caves within my mind and heart. I do not like being vulnerable, but for you I promise I will try.

To the next guy I love, I promise I will be the best thing that has ever happened to you. I promise to engage your heart. mind, and soul. I promise to support you and to love you even when it is difficult. Most importantly, I promise I will never stop trying.

Love,

Your Future Love

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And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make

The sun is up, the sky is blue, it's beautiful and so are you

Love is old, love is new, love is all, love is you

There's nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be

Life is very short, and there's no time for fussing and fighting, my friend

He say, "I know you, you know me", One thing I can tell you is you got to be free

Oh please, say to me, You'll let me be your man. And please say to me, You'll let me hold your hand

It was twenty years ago today, Sgt. Pepper taught the band to play. They've been going in and out of style, but they're guaranteed to raise a smile

Living is easy with eyes closed, misunderstanding all you see

Can you hear me? When it rains and shine, it's just a state of mind

Little darling, it's been long cold lonely winter. Little darling, it feels like years since it' s been here. Here comes the sun, Here comes the sun, and I say it's alright

We danced through the night and we held each other tight, and before too long I fell in love with her. Now, I'll never dance with another when I saw her standing there

I love you, I love you, I love you, that's all I want to say

You say you want a revolution. Well you know, we all want to change the world

All the lonely people, where do they all come from. All the lonely people, where do they all belong

Oh, I get by with a little help from my friends

Hey Jude, don't make it bad. Take a sad song and make it better

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And when the brokenhearted people, living in the world agree, there will be an answer, let it be.

And anytime you feel the pain, Hey Jude, refrain. Don't carry the world upon your shoulders

I'll give you all I got to give if you say you'll love me too. I may not have a lot to give but what I got I'll give to you. I don't care too much for money. Money can't buy me love

All you need is love, love is all you need

Whisper words of wisdom, let it be

Blackbird singing in the dead of night, Take these broken wings and learn to fly. All your life, You were only waiting for this moment to arise

Though I know I'll never lose affection, for people and things that went before. I know I'll often stop and think about them. In my life, I love you more

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