One week ago, I stood in a small room with approximately 20 strangers as you and seven other military recruits prepared to ship out for basic training. You swore in, in a short and simple ceremony; I honestly expected a bit more pomp and circumstance. I mean you just decided to dedicate at least four years of your life to serving the United States. Regardless, as I gave you one last hug and choked back my tears, I wanted to say so many things to you, but in the moment all I could only say, “I love you.” So here’s what I tried to say, but couldn’t.
1. Be safe.
I know that everyone tells you to be safe before you ship out, I know that right now you are just going to basic training, and I know that with your chosen career path that you may never see combat. However, I also know that the journey you are about to embark on will not be easy physically or mentally. I hope that you find strength when you feel weak, courage when you are scared, and that you remember how many people love and support back home. I know that this will be easier if you find good people and make good decisions which I hope you do.
2. Be smart.
The military needs and desires people who are intelligent and can absorb information quickly. You are bright, clever, and have been preparing for this for the past five years. As you begin your training, make sure to work hard and give it your all. When you progress into your career, continue to draw on your knowledge and training. One day, you could be in the position to make choices that have powerful and lasting consequences. In order to do this successfully, you will need to practice how to make smart and well-thought out decisions.
3. Be serious.
Whether you like it or not, as a member of the armed forces you symbolize our country. Your actions now directly reflect back on our nation’s values, ethics, and morals. When you are in your uniform, you act as a role model for young boys and girls who dream of serving their country one day. When you go abroad, you represent our country and what we stand for as a nation. You should not take this responsibility lightly; you have made a commitment to upholding our ideas and you must remember that.
There’s no doubt that I am going to miss you while you are gone, but I know that you are going to accomplish great things. I am honored you have chosen to serve our country alongside so many other brave men and women. I love you and hope you that this experience is rewarding and life changing.
