It is hard when friends move away. It is even harder when those friends join the military. Two of my very best friends joined the Navy after we graduated high school. These are some things that I want to say to them.

My friends,

Finding out that you were going to the military was not easy, and to be honest I didn't always handle it the best. I was so happy that you were doing what you wanted to do, and that you were following your dreams; that takes so much courage. But it was impossible not to be upset too. I was sad that you were leaving, I was depressed that our constant fun times would soon come to an end, and I was scared that our friendships would fade as you dove into your brand new lives. I was sad and depressed and scared for my life too. You joining the military meant your presence not being part of my every day life anymore, it meant not having fun with you every night, and it meant that I too, had to start over.

I will never forget the absolute pain I felt as our tight little group of four hugged one last time before you left and everything changed. But watching all of your milestones made the bitter a little more sweet. Getting that first letter from you, letting me know that you were okay and telling me you loved and missed me, that was so special. Seeing pictures of your graduations brought tears to my eyes because I was so beyond proud of you. And I will never forget the first time you came home, and I got to hug you again; I will forever look forward to homecomings like that.

So I guess what I am trying to say is, I miss you like you can't imagine, and there are still days when I just want you to be here with me. But I am so beyond proud of you, and thankful to you for your service to our country. And of course, I love you so very much!

-Me