Authenticity.
In a world filled with self-doubt, insecurities, expectations and judgement, authenticity is hard to come by. Too many people blatantly judge others for differences not accepted by current society standards. It is pressures like these that harness and suppress the wonders of so many individuals. It takes expression, halts it, and then throws it under the rug.
Finding individuals who are whole heartedly themselves is a rarity. Witnessing the unfiltered thoughts pour out of their minds is so inspiring. It is one occurrence I find most beautiful in our ever-evolving world.
Beyond authenticity is accepting others for their authentic selves. As people, we experience every event differently. We are continuously shaped by these events, as each occurrence tends to ignite a change in perspective or a change in the way we carry ourselves. This myopic view of the world is many times projected onto others when it comes to their viewpoint. Sadly, it means we expect others to react to situations just as we would. We expect them to be us; and we judge them for this difference. We refuse to accept them for who they are because who they are doesn’t fit in with our own perspectives. But there is always a bold soul who takes people as they are. Instead of judging and comparing others' decisions to their own, they accept others for their authentic selves.
These people make others feel that they are able to open up freely, and this is when that authentic expression really occurs. I am so thankful to the individuals who have witnessed me at every emotion and continue to accept me and my path. Hold on to those friends that put the effort in to make you feel this way. They are truly hard to come by.
This article is dedicated to Will Lange. You came into my life in a time of chaos and unhealthy self-discovery, and continued to put a smile on my face with your care-free and lovable attitude. Although we were never close, those car rides home blasting electric music were a blessing. You truly made such a positive and lasting effect on me. I will miss you, you beautiful, authentic soul.
