An Open Letter To Bullies Everywhere

An Open Letter To Bullies Everywhere

"All you are is mean."
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Dear Bullies,

You keep trying to bring me down with your words.

You say, "Nobody likes you," or "You have no friends."

You try to bring me down to put yourself up.

You bully me to make yourself feel better.

You try to take away my friends so that I feel isolated.

You try to make me feel depressed and lonely as if nobody is there for me, except you don't realize that what you say can have a lasting effect on me.

You call other people names and insult and demean them for your pleasure.

You do your best to make sure I have nobody, but you don't realize the repercussions your words have.

I never stood up to you out of fear, but I do not fear you anymore. I realize that you're only doing this because you feel bad about yourself so you lash out at other people. I don't think you realize the lasting effect your words have on other people. I have chosen to kill you with kindness and be the bigger person instead of responding to you. I am always going to be kind to you instead of rude or mean back because I know that's exactly what you want me to do.

It's time for all of us who have been affected because of your words to take a stand. Bullying someone is never okay and it should no longer be tolerable to people. This isn't one of those, "Girls will be girls," or "Boys will be boys."

Your words hurt people and sometimes they have unexpected consequences such as people wanting to commit suicide or wishing they were dead. What's it going to take to make you stop for a second and realize that you need to apologize and grow up?

Does someone really need to try and commit suicide or actually commit suicide for you to realize that what you did or have been doing is wrong?

It's time we take a stand against bullying. Whether it be cyberbullying, harassment, or messing with people, it's wrong. So all of you who have bullied people in the past or who have been bullied, let's stand together to unite with one another and make it stop.

As Taylor Swift would say, "All you are is mean."

Sincerely,

A Victim of Bullying

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I'm The Girl Without A 'Friend Group'

And here's why I'm OK with it

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Little things remind me all the time.

For example, I'll be sitting in the lounge with the people on my floor, just talking about how everyone's days went. Someone will turn to someone else and ask something along the lines of, "When are we going to so-and-so's place tonight?" Sometimes it'll even be, "Are you ready to go to so-and-so's place now? Okay, we'll see you later, Taylor!"

It's little things like that, little things that remind me I don't have a "friend group." And it's been like that forever. I don't have the same people to keep me company 24 hours of the day, the same people to do absolutely everything with, and the same people to cling to like glue. I don't have a whole cast of characters to entertain me and care for me and support me. Sometimes, especially when it feels obvious to me, not having a "friend group" makes me feel like a waste of space. If I don't have more friends than I can count, what's the point in trying to make friends at all?

I can tell you that there is a point. As a matter of fact, just because I don't have a close-knit clique doesn't mean I don't have any friends. The friends I have come from all different walks of life, some are from my town back home and some are from across the country. I've known some of my friends for years, and others I've only known for a few months. It doesn't really matter where they come from, though. What matters is that the friends I have all entertain me, care for me, and support me. Just because I'm not in that "friend group" with all of them together doesn't mean that we can't be friends to each other.

Still, I hate avoiding sticking myself in a box, and I'm not afraid to seek out friendships. I've noticed that a lot of the people I see who consider themselves to be in a "friend group" don't really venture outside the pack very often. I've never had a pack to venture outside of, so I don't mind reaching out to new people whenever.

I'm not going to lie, when I hear people talking about all the fun they're going to have with their "friend group" over the weekend, part of me wishes I could be included in something like that. I do sometimes want to have the personality type that allows me to mesh perfectly into a clique. I couldn't tell you what it is about me, but there is some part of me that just happens to function better one-on-one with people.

I hated it all my life up until very recently, and that's because I've finally learned that not having a "friend group" is never going to be the same as not having friends.

SEE ALSO: To The Girls Who Float Between Friend Groups

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Recent debates have come to light and it's time to set the record straight: Crocs are the superior shoe.

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