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An Open Letter to an Incoming High School Freshman

Love, a Nostalgic Senior

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An Open Letter to an Incoming High School Freshman

High school has a funny way of revealing to us the person we are called to be. Here's an open letter to incoming high school freshmen from a senior, wishing to give you advice on all I've learned.

I want you to know it's all worth it.

Every tear you cry, every failed math test. Every moment that seems like the end of the world, it isn't. It's going to make you stronger. I know it seems like the cliché thing to say, but I promise you that when it seems impossible to keep going, you can do it. You're not a failure for bombing a test, and for whatever reason you are crying, it too, soon will end. Every roadblock is simply a speed bump.

It's not like the movies make it out to be, but it's still pretty awesome.

Okay, High School Musical kind of set us up to expect dance numbers in the cafeteria. Now his may not really be a thing, but high school still is great without singing on top of tables. You have the chance to discover your interests, meet people so different from you, meet people so similar to you, and learn new things. Take it all in, it's such an amazing experience.

The boy that tells you he loves you probably isn't "the one."

Alright, girl talk. That boy who has all the right words to say is probably not Mr. Right. Never compromise yourself or your standards for a boy. Your value is not based upon a boy's admiration of you, so don't rush into finding a high school sweetheart. Never ignore your gut feeling if you have any doubts about him or his words. The right guy will come, but the one who says everything you want to hear and is pulling you away from your friends, he isn't the one, so don't waste your time.

Don't take a single moment for granted.

Refuse to overlook the beauty of each moment you are given. Life's a gift, and their are no guarantees. While you're having the time of your life on the field or on the stage, remember to express gratitude.

Graduation day seems like an eternity away, but it flies by faster than you ever anticipated.

Please don't wish your high school career away. Don't ever wish your life away. Value every moment, you are only a freshmen once.

Don't be afraid.

Fear nothing. You aren't the only one a little nervous for your first day. Don't be afraid of that drama club audition or that team try-out. Don't be afraid to stand up for what drives you and what you believe in. Don't be afraid of anything, for fear holds us back.

Best of luck in high school, go discover, go create, go live. You will be a senior before you know it, so savor every moment. You'll get through it, and you will succeed.

Love,

A Nostalgic Senior


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