From The Girl Who Is, And Always Will Be, 'One Of The Boys'

From The Girl Who Is, And Always Will Be, 'One Of The Boys'

I am definitely not the stereotypical girly-girl.

Recently, I asked a friend if being a not-so-girly girl is a turnoff, to prospective friends and guys who may show interest in me.

I love most sports, making sarcastic comments, and having a fun (yet laid back) time. These things are part of my identity, although I couldn't help but wonder if they make people think differently of me.

Her response?

"You do come off 'bro' [when you talk sports]."

I couldn't help but laugh, because that is one of the most accurate things anyone has ever said about me. I am definitely not the stereotypical girly-girl (though I will occasionally lose my sh*t over a cute baby or puppy). Most days, I’d choose trendy workout gear over a lacy dress. I spend 20 minutes max on my makeup, even if that means other girls look more glam than me. I can spit out the words to Eminem’s Without Me on command. Staying in to watch the Bruins (even if they get their asses kicked) is my ideal Saturday night, as opposed to getting all done up for a frat party or formal event. I don't cry over romantic comedies, but I sure as hell lose sleep over upcoming Patriots games. If I toss you sarcastic insults, that means I’ll keep you around. That's just how I am.

Don't get me wrong, just because I fit into the above stereotypes does not mean I don't like to embrace my inner girly-girl sometimes. I have a weak spot for attractive hockey and football players, Joey Tribbiani from Friends is my TV crush, I like to wear sundresses to country concerts, and Taylor Swift's old stuff is one of my many guilty pleasures. I have never felt the need to only fit into one of the two boxes; I simply get along better with guys because we share similar interests and mindsets. I can do both, and that's OK.

My friend then went on to say that I shouldn't change for anyone, no matter what somebody wants out of me. And she is absolutely right. I will change for nobody but myself, and if that means I’ll be a ‘bro’ for the rest of my youth, so be it.

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15 Texts We'd Get From Dogs If They Had Thumbs

"If you're reading this, send Milk Bones."

Let's be real, anyone who has a dog knows that it if we could, we would text our dogs all day long. If they could text us, our thread would look something like...

1. "Are you coming home soon?! Let's go out!"

2. "So not to be weird... but you never ended up answering me last night... Am I the good boy? Idk I just want to be clear on our relationship I don't want to be lead on if I'm not."

3. "The cat is being such a bit** I literally can't stand her"

4. "Hey, just wondering, are you going to wear those black booties tonight? If you are, I'll chew the zipper out of the brown ones instead."

5. "Okay, so don't freak out, but something not so chill happened on the rug..."

6. "Are there any leftovers in the trash? I'm not gonna get into it, I was just curious. Love u."

7. "If you're reading this... bring Milk Bones."

8. "Hey, what's for dinner tonight?! Purina again?"

9. "Miss you!!"

10. "Are you gonna eat that food on the counter or is that for everyone? Asking for the cat."

11. "I LOVE YOU"

12. "OMG, I can't wait for you to come home on break! Can you sleep in the guest room tho? Mom said I could have your room when you moved out. Love u!"

13. "Ice cream date later?!"

14. "We should go for a walk I need to get my ass back in shape for summer. You should be my workout buddy!"

15. "Netflix and chill tonight?"

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'Bohemian Rhapsody' Is The Must-See And Must-Hear Movie Of 2018

If you haven't yet seen the new Queen movie, when you do, you definitely won't regret it.


"Bohemian Rhapsody" was hands down one of the best movies we have seen in a long time.

Focused on the life of Freddie Mercury and his career as the lead singer of the well-known rock band Queen, Bohemian Rhapsody paid a great tribute to the late singer. Rami Malek plays Freddie with extreme talent, there wasn't one moment throughout the movie that I thought anyone else could've played the part.

If you don't know who Rami Malek is, this was not his first movie, he played in the Twilight Saga's "Breaking Dawn" (parts one and two) and also in multiple "Night at the Museum" movies. Also featured in the movie were Mike Meyers, and Allen Leech ("Downton Abbey's" Tom Branson).

It cannot be said that Rami didn't channel Freddie's personality.

The actor and the movie itself did a great job as portraying Freddie as the legend he truly was. It walked us through a brief mention of Freddie's humble upbringing as Farrokh Bulsara and the very beginnings of Queen, to the Live Aid concert at the Wembley Stadium in London six years before his passing. Watching the movie, you feel all of the emotion, the confusion, the love, the eccentric personality of Mercury, and the sense of family the band really had despite disagreements they had throughout their career.

Of course, I wasn't even born when Queen was performing, so in a way, I feel it might not have affected me emotionally quite as much as the way it affected many others in the theater. With laughter, tears, and even clapping, we were all engulfed in the life and career of Freddie Mercury.

Although some things may have been a little more dramatized or even underplayed, such as Freddie's sexuality, relationships, and the other band members' lives it was a great movie. In my opinion, even without those aspects, you could still relate and feel what Freddie was feeling, it did touch on a few relationships, however, this was not the focus of the movie and I don't feel it needed to be.

While the "Tomatometer" on Rotten Tomatoes only gave the movie a 60%, the "Audience Score," shows that 94% rated the movie with a score of 3.5 stars or higher. Some people who left reviews on IMDB felt the movie should have shown more of Freddie's life after Live Aid, and another review of only 3/10 stars claimed, "This move comes off like a LIFETIME film and not a serious Queen or Freddy Mercury Biopic for the big screen." Despite reviews such as this where people claimed to be disappointed, from the 55,071 user ratings, the movie earned an 8.4/10.

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