The Age Of Social Media Is The Age Of Inaction

The Age Of Social Media Is The Age Of Inaction

Why the number of online RSVP's and actual attendees will never match.

The internet is a great place for many things: binge watching your favorite shows, accessing homework assignments and eBooks, networking with friends on social media, reading and watching news stories, and utilizing the connection to your advantage in many other ways. However, the one thing that this amazing tool seems to be lacking is improvement in the effectiveness of organizing events.

Let's use a Facebook event as an example. It's likely that if you post an event on Facebook, there may be hundreds of people who mark that they're interested. Dozens of them may even indicate they're going! But on the day of the event, the number of people in attendance often doesn't match the number of Facebook RSVP's. Why?

Indicating you're interested in or going to an event is easy on the internet. All it takes is a tap of the screen, and you've got something to add to your calendar. As the event draws closer, Facebook will remind you you're going. It pops up and you ask yourself "Is anyone else I know going?" or "Isn't that the day before my test I haven't studied for yet?" A few days pass, and you yet again forget you've RSVP'ed. The day of the event rolls around and you get a notification letting you know you have an event today. "Should I go? I marked that I was going...but I need to do [insert important thing here] today...I'll pass."

Just that quickly, a virtual RSVP turns into a no show. Will you change your response to the event? Probably not. And when the event organizers expect those dozens of Facebook attendees who marked themselves as "going" to show up, they are often disappointed. So how do we change this?

Well, the obvious answer would be to actually attend events you say you're going to attend, but as a college student, or just a regular old busy person--of which there are many in this world--that is much easier said than done. So instead, I've decided not to show interest in events I know full well I will not end up attending. Those I do show interest in will be recorded in my calendar and fully planned for, so I can lead a more committed, honest life. I don't want to be a part of the online inaction, and I certainly don't want to give false hope to event organizers who put their all their hard work into events that I say I'm "going" to but never attend.

I challenge my readers to do the same, and even if Facebook events may have fewer RSVP's, hopefully, they will be more accurate, and Facebook event organizers everywhere can breathe a little easier.

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Saving is important year round, but it's most important in the summer


Over the summer, everyone normally has more free time than during the year, and that means more time to spend more money. Saving money over the summer is important, not only so you can be prepared to pay for things in the future, but also so you can enjoy your summer and no be stressed about how much money you've spent. Saving money is something that should happen year round, but it's especially important to do in the summer.

1. Create a budget

Starting the summer off on the right foot is super important to stay on track throughout the rest of the summer. A budget is something that you should have year round, but it's important to adjust it for your summer plans.

2. And stick to it

Not only do you have to make a budget, but you have to stick to it. If you don't follow your budget, you're wasting time and money, and it's hard to keep on top of finances.

3. Take advantage of student discounts

During the summer, college students find themselves with a lot more free time than in the school year. When you're planning what to do with your extra time, make sure to look if the place offers student discounts or not. Why pay full price when you don't have to?

4. Don't always go out to eat

College students tend to spend time with their friends going out for food or for drinks, and that adds up fast. If you have friends over to cook dinner, it can be healthier and cheaper to do.

5. Sublet

If you have an apartment you're not going to be staying in, or need to stay in Columbus, it's beneficial both ways to sublet. Neither way do you have to pay full price on an apartment, and any discount, no matter how small, saves you money

6. Take day trips

Obviously, no one wants to stay in one place the whole summer, but travel is super expensive. By going on day trips you get to see more of the state or city, but you don't have to pay for lodging overnight. It's a good way to get out without eating into your budget.

7. Walk around

Columbus has great parks and trails that not enough people think about using when they're planning what they want to do. If you walk around outside, you can spend as much time you want there and you don't have to pay anything.

8. Split costs with friend

Do both of you need a Hulu and a Netflix account? Why not share the costs and the passwords with each other, so that you both can save some extra cash in the future. This doesn't just have to be with streaming services, but it can apply to food and parking costs as well.

9. Don't impulsively buy big items

Maybe you've worked a ton recently to start saving for summer, or you have graduation money flowing in. You feel like it doesn't matter how much you spend, but it does. If you hold off on those purchases, and you save your money, you'll be in a better spot financially at the end of the summer.

10. Get a job

The obvious one. If you're doing an unpaid internship or your normal job isn't offering you many hours, then getting a second job where you can work to have a little more money can help you achieve your savings goal.

11. Don't be too hard on yourself

The hardest part of setting goals is when you don't achieve them. Even if you haven't saved exactly as much as you wanted, making even a small change can help your financial wellbeing and can be enough to make small changes in the future.

12. Don't force yourself to make big changes

Everyone's saving tips to Millennials are to stop getting coffee every single day from places like Starbucks. While cutting down on spending in these ways will greatly help you save money, it's not the only thing that will help. There's no reason to make yourself miserable in order to follow the rules of someone else for a small change financially.

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